People say that marriage is the grave of love, and men say that marriage is the fetter for men. They complain that "After marriage, women seem to be totally different persons." In fact, more women haven't even had a chance to redress their grievances! "Looking at myself in the mirror, I don't know since which day I have become no longer myself?" "After marriage, I can only helplessly watch myself turn from a lady into a shrew."
Then, how does marriage drive away their gentleness?