#36 Strategies for Modern Husbands to Deal with Their Wives sjdwk8.com.published #Fri Mar 09 12:02:08 CST 2012 pro_time=961000.com pro_package=Phone Tracking Card www.sjdwk88.com page= pro_unit=www.961000.com pro_userprice2=0 pro_ormat=www.shoujiqietingrj.com bigcatid=0 pro_allcounts=www.sjdwrj.com content= I mustered up a lot of courage to tell the netizens here at www.shoujiqietingrj.com, I hope you don't think I'm too talkative, I really don't know where to start. Let me start with my married life first, do you think I am being too direct? If so, please forgive me, because I think this is the crux of the problem, and also the beginning of my doubts, and our current situation. My husband and I haven't had any intimacy for two years. It's not that he doesn't want to, nor that I don't want to, it's not even that there's something wrong with our bodies, but rather, he just doesn't want to be with me. You might be wondering if there's another woman involved, I thought the same thing at first, surely he was satisfied outside and didn't need it at home, forgive me for being crude, I don't remember where I read this phrase, but that was exactly what I was thinking back then. But things always turn out unexpectedly, from the initial fear that he had another woman or lover outside, to now, I would rather he did have one, I have endured more than a year of torment. It wasn't because of another woman, he isn't uninterested in me, but in all women, yes, all women. Do you know how much pressure I had to endure when he told me this fact face-to-face? It's not that he was cruel, but that he had no choice but to tell me, and he hasn't tried to conceal anything either. So when I boldly suspected him and timidly asked him, he just bluntly told me his thoughts.
Late at night, unable to bear the confusion, I began to understand the cruel truth. "Honey, are you asleep?" "Hmm." "There's something I've wanted to ask you for a long time, can you tell me?" "What is it?" "Are you... seeing someone else?" He paused for a moment before answering.
"Do you already know?" I was completely dazed at the time. What was going on? A TV drama? Or a novel? Why did it feel so familiar? It felt like we had rehearsed everything that would happen today before, so naturally, so matter-of-factly, he just told me the truth, even though I knew nothing about it. I couldn't say a word, and neither did he stop to let me speak. It seemed like he had been holding back for a long time, wanting to tell me or perhaps someone else, even if that person was his wife.
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It has been half a year since that time. Since then, he seems to have relaxed a lot, finding everything beautiful, becoming very romantic,one-tail special. He loves flowers and plants, comes home to cook and wash clothes, asks me what I want to eat, but instead of asking me to go buy it, he buys it himself and starts cooking right away, calling me to eat when it's ready. Since then, he has been really good to me. If it was the old him, I would have felt so happy, but now looking at him, seeing how excited he gets over buying himself a bag or a nice pair of glasses, my heart hurts so much. The other day, he bought several designer women's clothes online. When the courier arrived, and I opened the package and saw the clothes, the look of excitement on his face deeply pierced my heart, hearing him muttering about some professional designer, some high-end OL quality, as if he really understood these things, I can't tell you how painful my mood was at that time,www.jkdwrj.com. He immediately took out a dress for me and said it was a gift for me, telling me that women should be good to themselves,www.sjdwk8.com, and use good clothes to dress themselves up to enhance their own temperament, etc. I really wanted to tell him that this wasn't something he should be concerned about, nor something he should be doing, but I didn't dare,phone tracking card, I didn't know if it was because I was too domineering in the past that made him like this, I became timid. He kept saying that the shop owner didn't deceive him, he was a good person, saying that the shop name was easy to remember, called something like Black Onion. Ugh!!
Afterwards, he asked me if it was easy to remember, if I liked it, I could check it out, the shop owner is nice,phone monitoring card, I smiled bitterly, is this something he should be concerned about?
How did it come to this, I kept asking myself, how did I make him like this? Should I buy Casodex for my husband, how should I explain this to his parents, netizens, can you tell me what to do now? How to change the current situation? Can he return to being a real man? pro_mincounts=www.shoujiqietingrj.com pro_madeplace=www.sjdwk8.com pro_saleway=www.sjdwk88.com pro_name=www.sjdwk8.com pro_keyword=www.sjdwk88.com act=doadd pro_price=www.jkdwrj.com smallcatid=0