One. Precipitate Friends "When poor on the road, no one asks; when rich in the deep mountains, there are distant relatives." It doesn't matter whether they are relatives or "friends", there are a lot of snobbish people, you can easily grab a handful of them. When you are in the low ebb and difficulties of life, the hands that reach out to you with warmth are your friends. Never believe those sweet words when you are wealthy - they're fake; because even dogs wearing hats can confuse your eyes: "Hey, buddy, let's drink." The toast of "deep feelings, drink it all down" may also be seen at the neighboring table - it seems like he is also wearing such a hat.
Two. Calm Mind At this age, immaturity is not allowed anymore. You need to know that for things happening around you, you have already completed the process from "dislike" to "tolerate". If you still don't get used to it, it means that your mind is not mature enough. Don't complain about yourself endlessly, don't block yourself.
Three. Sow Kindness Do everything in your power to let those who are more suffering and difficult than you feel the sunshine and beauty of this world. This kind of kindness needs to be sown frequently, unintentionally, it will bloom the most beautiful flowers of humanity. Sowing kindness is "cultivating the heart" for oneself.
Four. Cultivate Hobbies One of music, chess, calligraphy, painting, flowers, birds, insects, and fish must suit you. You must cultivate a hobby for yourself. It will purify your body and mind, open up your memory and imagination, and spread your romance. When you are fully engaged, it will bring you unexpected peace and enjoyment. There are also photography, collection... They are all monosodium glutamates in our days, making our lives flavorful bit by bit.
Five. Follow the Edge of Gain and Loss There are two kinds of sufferings in the world: one is the suffering of not getting what you want, the other is the suffering of being infatuated. On the premise of your efforts, treat all what you want to get as a gamble. Be calm in victory; be indifferent in defeat. Getting it is my luck, losing it is my fate. The most painful thing in the world is to be infatuated, even if it's between husband and wife, it's no different. With this age, we have passed the "passionate burning years", staying calm is something we can grasp. After all, life is a solo journey.
Six. Learn to Endure Some things need to be forgotten silently. Every experience adds wisdom; some pain and troubles need to be endured silently by yourself; every tempering enriches you once. Your pain and troubles should not depend on others' pity and sympathy. Solve your own problems yourself, this is the best remedy for your spiritual pain.
Seven. Often Remember Gratitude Experiences are a wealth. After attending a funeral, we always have some reflections; after recovering from a serious illness, we always have much appreciation. A grateful heart must be kept at all times, it not only makes you cherish every grain of sand, every stone, every grass, every branch, but also makes you indifferent to some invisible pressure, soothes your desires and struggles. More often, some sense of happiness also comes from this.
Eight. Diligently Read Books Reading and learning are chatting with wisdom, using others' experiences to increase your own wisdom, why not? Make reading a habit, some of your thoughts come from here, some insights also come from here. And it can also cure ignorance, and keep your personal charm for a long time.
No matter how red or purple, running horses or lights, it's not as good as living a true life; seeking power, position, gold, silver, it's not as good as having a good mood. Life is long, how many times can we be happy? High-rise buildings are easy to build, but a good mood is hard to buy; letting go of worries, a smile is worth a thousand golds.
If you fall, don't cry, get up again, stand straight, smile, pat off the dust, and continue running. Face every setback in life directly, adapt to every rise and fall in life, learn from every failure in life, and use every bump in life. Try to give yourself the best mood, balance your breath, adjust your mentality, don't rush for success, first be a successful person. Even if you fall heavily, you can still become better tomorrow; even if you live in the hardest hell, it's like ascending to the brightest heaven.
If you are scolded, don't rush, turn around and avoid, smile faintly, stay calm in your heart, anger will disappear. Going out to do things, you are bound to be excluded by some people, or discriminated against by some people, or envied, harmed, suppressed by some people; dealing with people, you are bound to have friction with some people, or make everyone angry, or accidentally establish enemies. Open your chest, widen your tolerance, give yourself the best mood, keep the freedom and purity of your inner, bring happiness to others with your gentleness and smiles, rather than dirty your mouth with others' spits; use your flexibility and kindness to eliminate everyone's estrangement, rather than be blocked by estrangement until you can't breathe.
If you break up, don't cry, look at the back, smile faintly, keep the photo, wish him/her better. It's hard to have perfect love in this world, there are far more tragedies than comedies in human life. But despite the lack of perfect love in this world, we can still have complete and beautiful wishes, send the best blessings to the other party. Try to give yourself the best mood, kindly bless others, and you will also get happiness. When a person is no longer afraid of falling in love, he will no longer be afraid of any sadness; when a person is no longer afraid of any sadness, he will no longer be troubled by emotions, but enjoy all the joys and sorrows in life with a smile.
If you feel lonely, don't rush, open your diary, write a poem, blend your feelings into the paper, drive away the cold. Everyone in the world is lonely, everyone's heart is lonely. Walk through the lonely road in life, sigh at the lonely shadow in life. When the moonlight comes out, dance happily, give yourself the best mood, enjoy the free world when you are alone. Cherish every person who enters your world, because they are all gifts given by God. When a person is no longer afraid of loneliness, he will always live full and happily; when a person is no longer afraid of loneliness, his heart will always be warm, his soul will be infinitely rich.
If you part ways with friends, don't cry, remember the true friendship, imprint the deep feeling, care for each other, and have a smooth journey. It's rare to have a few true-hearted people in life, rare to have a few honest friends, rare to have a few laughs in the past, rare to have a few cups of cheerful wine. Friends are spiritual wealth for a lifetime, lifelong companions of the soul, put the most sincere friendship in the depths of your heart, send the farthest blessing to the front of the old road, friends haven't parted, they just stay in your heart forever. Recall the old words, think of the games in childhood, give yourself the best mood, seem to get younger and purer like a child.
If the meeting is over, don't rush, record the face, record the name, record the voice, record the memories. Every classmate is an edge, every colleague is a share, every encounter in life is extraordinary, wonders flash everywhere on the roadside. Give yourself the best mood, calmly and happily, enjoy every character on the road of life, enjoy every scenery on the road of life, enjoy every event on the road of life, enjoy every reunion and separation on the road of life, enjoy the only life of yours.
If a relative passes away, don't cry, that's not going, it's just returning to the soil, leaving words on the tombstone, pouring wine to think of the past. The closest relatives are none other than blood relatives; the strongest feelings are none other than flesh-and-blood feelings. No matter where you go, you always remember the hardships of your parents; no matter what you do, never betray the expectations of your relatives. If a relative passes away, don't cry, don't be sad, give yourself the best mood, live more optimistically and positively, live more strongly and uprightly, let the deceased rest assured, let the living relatives be happy. Live properly, walk regularly, live peacefully, breathe happily.
If the grave is near, don't rush, lean on the rocking chair, look at the old road, pat the young ones, take a small step. People originally have no birth and death, spring and summer repeat winter and autumn, coming and going like the four seasons, the sun and moon rotate in the wind; flowers bloom and fall, teeth tighten and loosen, leaves turn green and yellow, cups fill and empty. A small flower, a light cup of tea, taste all the flavors of life, return home in a circle; nature has its great way, no one can escape it, instead of painfully avoiding it and enduring various tortures, it's better to bravely move forward and enjoy new happiness. Strive to give yourself a good mood, so that you can enjoy the last scenery in the remaining days easily, freely, and satisfactorily.
Smart people are always looking for a good mood; Successful people are always keeping a good mood; Happy people are always enjoying a good mood. Today only explore - beautiful scenery; In this life, only seek - a good mood.