What is love? People are willing to make life and death promises to each other. What a beautiful declaration of love, how noble it is, surpassing even death itself. For thousands of years, many people have pursued the highest power, and countless others have longed for an end to time. On the path of love, there has never been a lack of perseverance and exploration.
However, ancient love stories often end in tragedy - separated lovers, or those who remain apart due to circumstances, vowing devotion but remaining distant. People sing odes to love, but it seems that love is also cursed. Thus, love is called sublime, as if competing, yet endless.
But this is just preaching. In reality, love is extraordinary, yet ordinary at the same time. Life is not a novel or a soap opera; there isn't so much romance and surprise. It mostly depends on individuals: meeting someone special in a sea of people, experiencing Platonic love, waiting for true love to arrive. Lasting harmony always stays... Every genuine love is an emotion without regret, unforgettable because it's real, so immense.
However, the reform and opening up brought not only a great economic system transformation, but also a significant impact on people's emotional attitudes. Trendy, fast-food style relationships seem to be prevalent on the stage.
College students form a large group during their tranquil youth. Facing modern college campuses, which are no longer merely places for the transmission of cultural knowledge, they have gradually become the best park for college romances. In campus, couples are everywhere, and many are together. Indeed, college students' age and unique spiritual needs make this the most loving time. However, reviewing college students' love outcomes reveals a subtle language, sighs.
Many students don't know why they want to fall in love, but occasionally join the ranks of love. Some say that in college, one must find a partner, seeking spiritual support, passing lonely and boring times; others think college students should talk about love, you won't regret it, no reason not to; and some do it casually, seeing others doing it, thinking "I'll go too..."
Through answering these questions, we must ask ourselves: how many truly seek true love, truly wish to be with the other half, and how many truly wish to spend a lifetime in the marriage hall?
If a lover says those words, how would hearing such words affect them? Would they have the courage to continue?
Once, someone said a phrase: all love that does not aim for marriage is hooliganism. It sounds simple, and many even find it funny, but it is worth every lover's reflection. Comparing love, many college students have grand banquets, approach each other, and share courage in difficult times, but lack mutual support when troubled. Therefore, a simple rose, chocolate, and candy become mere burial accessories.
Do not hold hands casually, but once held, letting go becomes a huge burden unless people remain unmoved by truth. People in love should ask themselves: do you love her (him)? If you don't love me, why are you with her (him)? Does she (he) love me? If you don't love me, why aren't you with someone else?
In fact, love is like shopping. As you select more items, your vision increases, making it harder to choose appropriately. But the more selections you make, the less valuable they become. People in love should consider choosing or being chosen. Sometimes, love makes things increasingly cheap, and love itself becomes cheaper.
Youth is the best time in a person's life. Love is a wonderful emotion everyone yearns for. If both combine, there will be two completely different results, even extremes: some lovers build strong foundations, encourage each other, work hard together, achieving career peaks and success; others become addicted to love, lazy, and eventually become mundane. Regrettably, there's no process without regret in the world. Why?
Today's college students are young adults. Their thoughts are immature, lacking the courage and ability to take responsibility. People in love are the most clumsy, the most moved, giving everything without reservation, expressed in different ways, sincerely.
Especially influenced by avant-garde ideas, cohabitation has become commonplace, even leading to actions that shouldn't occur. But as students, who truly has the ability to be responsible for each other? How should we bear responsibility? School isn't finished, jobs aren't secured, reasons haven't started, except for parents, what can compensate for mistakes? Sweet words become so weak at this moment. Therefore, items like fathers fearing facing filled with today's society, college students are no exception. Once, encountering hand-holding love was sweet; separation turned strangers. Since then, the earth's center, isolated methods.
If the other party truly loves the other side, even traveling thousands of miles is without regret; if it's only a fleeting pleasure, it's better not to disturb, causing less harm, letting others let them be.
Life is precious because we only live once. Love is noble because true love only gives the most important thing to another person. Youth is a book, but you cannot see the outcome beforehand; otherwise, as a youth, losing any meaning. Everyone hopes to find the most suitable person riding the love banquet. Love, honest communication, reducing false promises; more understanding and trust, less doubt and suspicion; more care without coldness... Perhaps, in many people's eyes, girls, beautiful roses, you didn't personally pick a cluster of chrysanthemums fragrance; decorating luxurious villas into warm cottages; BMWs, Mercedes-Benzes turning into her bicycles light and interesting... Because love is a person enjoying sweetness, without love.
As college students, actually, are fortunate, and most of the time, they use their parents' money, living and studying easily. However, it's often heard that some students excessively waste time and money pursuing girls in the name of love. Is it really worth it? If truly loving the other side, they choose persistence, not letting anyone start regretting, not letting the other side's heart freeze while jumping between two countries. If you truly don't love initially, choosing to let go early may cause less harm that takes a lifetime to forget, rather give each other a chance.
How much hope does college love have? The answer remains unknown. I'm not saying, you're not saying, it must be experienced. But one thing is understood: only true love brings happiness, otherwise loneliness is inevitable.