During the daytime, Zou Fei focuses on her work in the lab she loves; after work, the first thing she does is to help her mom wash her face, clean her feet, and take care of her bowel movements. Reporter Cai Hongxin took the photo. Today, let me tell you about a good girl. How is she good? She is filial and strong-willed. She is already 35 years old, but for the sake of taking care of her mom, she hasn't gotten married yet. Her mom has a serious illness and cannot take care of herself. For seven years, Zou Fei has been taking care of her mom without ever neglecting her work. In ten years, she has completed the workload of twenty years. Don't you think this girl is strong-willed? She also said that when she gets married in the future, she will still take her mom with her. Who is she? She is Zou Fei, the only laboratory technician at the Fuxin City Xihedistrict Maternal and Child Health Care Institute. Seven years ago, her mom was diagnosed with brain atrophy and couldn't get out of bed. Not only did she need help with meals, but also with bowel movements. Zou Fei and her father had to divide the responsibilities: during the day, her father would take care of her at home, and in the evening, Zou Fei would take over after work. However, in March 2008, her mom's condition worsened and she was hospitalized. The director of the health institute specially gave Zou Fei a leave so that she could focus on taking care of her sick mother. But this girl insisted on being strong. She knew that she was the only laboratory technician in the health institute. There were 6,000 pregnant women and children in the entire district who needed various medical tests. The blood samples collected by the nurses during the day had to be tested the same day, otherwise they would be wasted. Normally, it would take two or three people to complete these tasks. "I will go to the hospital to take care of my mom during the day and return to the unit to do the tests in the evening." Zou Fei made up her mind. During the half month her mom was in the hospital, Zou Fei went to the unit alone every night to conduct tests. She often worked until 10 p.m., and sometimes even until midnight if there were more tests to do. How could one endure such hard work? Moreover, she was a young girl. As a result, she fell ill from exhaustion and developed heart palpitations. But she didn't tell anyone, she just cried secretly by herself. Since May 2006, Zou Fei's mom developed another problem. One day, the elderly woman hadn't used the toilet for seven days, which greatly worried her daughter. She invited a classmate from the hospital to help give her mom an enema, and the stool that came out was as hard as a stone. Seeing her mom's painful expression, Zou Fei felt heartbroken. She bought honey and bananas, but they didn't have much effect. This girl had no choice but to wear gloves and manually assist her mom to relieve herself. However, over time, this method became less effective. Zou Fei then came up with another idea: shouting slogans together with her mom. Every two days, when helping her mom relieve herself, she would first apply ten suppositories to her mom, then say, "Mom, let's shout together: Push!" Then, her mom would chant along with her daughter's rhythm: Push! Push! Sometimes, she would even sing songs to her mom. It would take more than half an hour each time for her mom to finally relieve herself. Before we knew it, Zou Fei was already 35 years old. She was strong-willed in her work and also had to take care of her mom. Wasn't this delay caused by these responsibilities? She said that if she were to marry, she absolutely couldn't abandon her mom and would definitely have to bring her along. Now, Zou Fei's mom is troubled. How can she let her daughter's lifelong happiness be delayed because of her? The elderly woman has now entrusted me to find a matchmaker for her, hoping to find a good family for this girl. I don't know if you have any good young men available. Please let me know quickly. Special correspondent in Fuxin, Cai Hongxin. Share to: Welcome to comment, I want to comment. Weibo recommendation | Today's Weibo hot topics