Girl wants to marry with her brain-shrunken mom (Picture)

by dd8rt6wfg on 2012-02-28 10:26:26

During the day, Zou Fei focuses on her work in the lab she loves; after work, the first thing she does is to help her mother wash her face, wash her feet, and take care of her toileting needs. Reporter Cai Hongxin took the photos. Today we're going to talk about a good young woman. How is she good? She's filial and strong-willed. She's already 35 years old, and in order to take care of her mother, she hasn't even gotten married yet. Her mother has a serious illness and cannot take care of herself. For seven years, Zou Fei has taken care of her mother without ever neglecting her work. In ten years, she has completed the workload of twenty years. Isn't this girl strong-willed? She also said that when she gets married in the future, she will still take her mother with her. Who is she? She is Zou Fei, the only laboratory technician at the Fuxin City Xihex District Maternal and Child Health Care Center. Seven years ago, her mother was diagnosed with brain atrophy. Not only could she not get out of bed, but she also needed someone to take care of her meals and toileting needs. Zou Fei and her father had to divide the responsibilities. During the day, her father would stay home to look after her, and at night, Zou Fei would take over after work to look after her mother. However, in March 2008, her mother's condition worsened and she was hospitalized. The leadership of the health center gave Zou Fei a vacation so that she could take care of her sick mother. But this girl is strong-willed. She knew that she was the only laboratory technician at the health center. There were 6,000 pregnant women and children in the entire district who needed various tests. The blood samples collected by the nurses during the day must be tested on the same day, otherwise they would be wasted. Normally, at least two to three people are required to complete these tasks in the laboratory. "During the day, I go to the hospital to take care of my mom, and at night, I return to the office to do the testing." Zou Fei made up her mind. During the half month that her mother was hospitalized, Zou Fei would go to the unit alone at night to conduct tests, often working until 10 PM. Sometimes, if there were more tests to be done, she would work until midnight. How could anyone endure such a workload? Especially a young woman! As a result, she fell ill from overwork and developed heart palpitations, but she didn't tell anyone. She just cried silently to herself. Since May 2006, Zou Fei's mother developed another problem. One day, the elderly woman hadn't used the toilet for seven days. This worried her daughter greatly. She called her classmate from the hospital to help give her mother an enema, and the stool that came out was as hard as a stone. Seeing her mother's painful expression, Zou Fei felt heartbroken. She bought honey and bananas, but they didn't have much effect. In the end, she had no choice but to wear gloves and use her hands to help her mother defecate smoothly. However, over time, this method became less effective. Zou Fei then came up with another idea: shouting slogans together with her mother. Every two days when helping her mother defecate, she would first insert ten suppositories into her mother. Then she would say, "Mom, let's shout together: Push!" Then her mother would follow her daughter's rhythm and shout together: Push! Push! Sometimes she would even sing songs to her mother. Each time, it would take more than half an hour before her mother could defecate. Before we knew it, Zou Fei turned 35. Being strong-willed at work and having to take care of her mother delayed her personal life. She said that if she were to get married, she couldn't leave her mother behind; she would definitely have to bring her along. Now, Zou Fei's mother is worried. How can she let her daughter's lifelong happiness be delayed because of her? The elderly woman has now entrusted me to find her a matchmaker. We must find a good family for this young woman. I don't know if you have any good young men available. Please let me know quickly. Special correspondent to Fuxin, Cai Hongxin.