Girl wants to marry with her brain atrophy mom (Picture)

by dd8rt6wfg on 2012-02-28 10:25:52

During the day, Zou Fei focuses on her work in her beloved lab; after work, the first thing she does is help her mother wash her face, wash her feet, and take care of her bowel and bladder movements. Reporter Cai Hongxin took the photo. Today we are going to talk about a good young woman's story. How is she good? She is filial and strong-willed. She is already 35 years old, but for the sake of taking care of her mother, she hasn't gotten married yet. Her mother has a serious illness and cannot take care of herself. For seven years, Zou Fei has taken care of her mother without ever missing a day of work, completing the workload of twenty years within ten years. Don't you think this girl is strong-willed? She also said that when she gets married in the future, she will still take her mother with her. Who is she? She is Zou Fei, the only laboratory technician at the Fuxin City Xih River District Maternal and Child Health Care Institute. Seven years ago, her mother suffered from brain atrophy and couldn't get out of bed. Not only did she need someone to take care of her three meals a day, but also her bowel and bladder movements. She had to go to work, but she couldn't neglect her mother either. Zou Fei and her father had to divide the responsibilities: her father would take care of her mother during the day, and Zou Fei would take over after work. However, in March 2008, her mother's condition worsened and she was hospitalized. The institute leadership specially gave Zou Fei a leave to allow her to take care of her sick mother without worry. But this girl is strong-willed. She knows that she is the only laboratory technician at the health care institute. There are 6,000 pregnant women and children in the district who need various medical tests. The blood samples collected by the nurses during the day must be tested on the same day, otherwise they would be wasted. Under normal circumstances, at least two to three people in the lab department are needed to complete these tasks. "I will go to the hospital to take care of my mother during the day and return to the unit to conduct tests at night." Zou Fei made up her mind. During the half month her mother was hospitalized, Zou Fei conducted tests alone at the unit at night, often working until 10 PM. Sometimes, when there were more tests to conduct, she worked until midnight. This kind of work schedule is unbearable, especially for a young woman. As a result, she got sick and developed heart palpitations, but she didn't tell anyone. She just cried secretly by herself. Since May 2006, Zou Fei's mother developed another problem. One day, the elderly woman hadn't gone to the bathroom for seven days. This worried her daughter greatly. She invited a classmate from the hospital to help give her mother an enema, and the stool that came out was as hard as a stone. Seeing her mother in so much pain, Zou Fei felt heartbroken. She bought honey and bananas, but they didn't have much effect. This child had no choice but to wear gloves and use her hands to help her mother pass stool smoothly. However, over time, this method became ineffective. Zou Fei then came up with another idea: shouting slogans together with her mother. Every two days when helping her mother with bowel movements, she would first insert ten suppositories for her mother and then say, "Mom, let's shout together: push!" Then, her mother would shout along with her daughter: push! push! Sometimes, she would even sing songs to her mother. Each time it would take more than half an hour for her mother to pass stool. In the blink of an eye, Zou Fei turned 35. Being strong-willed at work and having to take care of her mother delayed her marriage. She said that if she were to marry, she certainly could not abandon her mother and must take her along. Now, Zou Fei's mother is worried. How can she let her daughter's lifelong happiness be delayed because of her? The elderly woman has asked me to find a matchmaker for her. We must find a good family for this young woman. I don't know if you have any good young men available. Please let me know quickly. Special correspondent for Fuxin, Cai Hongxin.