"I have a house and a car, but I value more the family background of my other half, as well as their personal qualities and abilities," said Xiaolin, born in 1989, to the author. Xiaolin graduated last year from a university in Hangzhou with a degree in business management. He plans to gain some experience working for a few years at the company founded by his father before eventually inheriting the family business. He believes that the environment of both families has tangible and intangible influences on the marriage of two people and is one of the key points to examine. The educational level, quality, and other abilities of the woman determine whether she can communicate spiritually with him. "My future wife may also need to help me manage the family business, so it would be best if she came from a similar family background and was also a college graduate. This way, we can get along better. I will bring up these issues when we meet." Experts say that rushing into marriage to escape employment is too risky. Nowadays, when talking about young people born after 1985, society shows more tolerance towards those who are eager to get married or female university students who are anxious to find a husband, and no longer indiscriminately scolds them with derogatory terms like "gold digger". Dr. Yu Beihong from the Department of Sociology at Fuzhou University analyzed that as university students, their spiritual requirements are certainly not low. However, they want to escape the pressures of social reality by marrying men who already have a certain material foundation, making it difficult for them to find partners among their peers and leading them to turn to matchmaking agencies to look for "successful individuals." Nevertheless, this leaves hidden dangers for marriage. Finding a soulmate with common aspirations is everyone's desire, but different methods may lead to mistakes in direction.