The five steps within the addiction induced Mei heart there is always an excitement and sadness intertwined with complex feelings. After the honeymoon wedding excitement and happiness, we will not be surprised to see that Mui becomes a caring and wonderful wife. When work time is up, Mui immediately grabs her handbag and leaves the office to go home to prepare dinner for her husband. Colleagues envy Mr. Mui's luck; in fact, the only reason why she leaves so early is most clearly understood by her heart. The day after, New World Shopping Mall, with its fabulously decorated luxury windows, will be like a magnet attracting her past. Ah has to stop in front of each window, and it takes more than 10 minutes before she gives up and goes away. The strange thing is, Ah doesn't have much interest in the mall itself but just lingers in front of the mall's windows, reluctant to leave... This hobby is related to her personality and lifestyle. During the procurement period when getting ready for marriage, Ah frequently visited major shopping malls. Visually impacted by a large number of high-grade goods, she intellectually understands that these expensive items do not belong to her and at best are borrowed for the wedding, yet subconsciously she actually yearns to own them. Under the guidance of her subconscious, Mui escapes the supervision of reason: "I’m not into the mall, I won't spend money." So, she cannot suppress coming in front of the window displaying an array of items, the more they want to control themselves, the more they try to control themselves. No matter how strange the hobby, it does not affect normal life and there is no need to worry too much about it. Once a certain threshold is reached, your mind will always remind you: "Don’t hang out in front of the window of the house" or "Shut down the report tomorrow to pay only a start." Within a period of time, you may engage in this type of internal conflict, trying to quit sooner. Li Zhen, whose fanaticism is also a kind of addiction, simply demands that her job requirements be satisfied. Even after submitting reports to customers, she still constantly modifies them. Almost all of her time is spent working; she doesn't have particularly close friends or hobbies. She fears weekends and holidays because, aside from work, she doesn't know what to do. Li Zhen works hard, so the painful memories of her neglected childhood become very light and no longer hurt her. Behind some fanatical pursuits of things lie former pain and personality defects. Precisely because of the absence of a soulful need to supplement, there will be excessive performance on the other hand, beyond the normal degree of passion. This personality defect or originated from having experienced a major setback, or from a normal family environment and parenting. People with personality defects can be very clever and may achieve a lot, but their self-experience of life is uneven, imbalanced, and painful, and they also give others a lot of unpleasantness. I don't mean to poison; once the personality is formed, it will be difficult to change. Those around him, who love and have a cheerful, healthy, and positive personality, whether they are lovers or friends, will imperceptibly influence him, gradually guiding his personality towards a healthy direction. Personality defects can be remedied, he will produce normal feelings and reactions towards things, and original fanaticism will gradually diminish. On the side of the board: talking about drug addiction, two cases related to addiction illustrate this point. A domestic prosecutor and a foreign female psychiatrist, both winners in their respective industries, came into contact with people addicted to drugs, unable to stop, in order to better help these unfortunate people, decided to experience the feeling of drug abuse. Before doing it, they were convinced that they could control themselves and wouldn't become addicted. However, the result was cruel, and after several trials, they found themselves becoming addicts just like those they came to help. Then followed desperate pain, and neither could get rid of drug addiction. The prosecutor ultimately completely lost the ability to work, and the psychiatrist became a schizophrenic patient. Today’s drugs are quite different from opium two centuries ago. After extraction and purification through high-tech means, once addicted to drugs, it is almost impossible to completely get rid of it. Quitting devastates the human body and mind, making it difficult to restore. Once infected with drugs, regardless of how strong your control ability is, how perfect your personality is, or how good your genes are, the results are the same. Other Afterword: I Lin Lifang (West off side streets, Lu Pu County, Fujian Province, No. 43 3551O0).