I've been in Shenzhen for over a month and I've caught a cold twice. After summarizing, the reasons are as follows: first, I underestimated the climate of Shenzhen because I thought it was tropical and wouldn't be very cold; second, I overestimated my physical fitness and thought it didn't matter to catch a little chill when the weather changed, but as a result, the cold took advantage of this small chill and I got sick; third, I didn't prepare well enough, not even bothering to buy winter clothes.
The second hurt is that when I first started working at the hotel, I wasn't quite used to the environment, the transition from being a student to a working adult, the shift from serious study to dealing with my boss, and adapting to colleagues with different personalities. This period passed rather uneventfully, without much turmoil, and I just adapted.
The third hurt is facing someone I like. Shenzhen is where I want to be, but it may not be attractive enough for her. I've said that if we could stay in Shenzhen together, I would have no regrets.
The fourth hurt is experiencing the taste of not being able to go home for the New Year as a new employee at the hotel. I feel that taking care of myself and reporting safety to my parents during the holiday is enough. As I said, it's best not to sacrifice too much for work, and I hope not to hurt the feelings of those who want to reunite with their families.
There are some hurts in Shenzhen that I don't want to talk about too much, so as not to seem sad. For example, having no one to play with, feeling like a drifter, or being bored after work. I can only say that I am getting by, and I hope this is not a derogatory term. Because I don't know what it means to live an interesting life, getting by should be the state of ordinary people's lives, right?