Detail One: Making women sit in the back seat while driving
Men with cars will inevitably have moments when they let others ride in their car, and if it's a female colleague, it might make him even more pleased. We generally assume that he would want anyone riding with him to sit in the passenger seat, making it convenient for conversation and creating a sense of being "fellow travelers." However, if it’s a truly favored female colleague, he would prefer her to sit in the back seat. First, he can admire her freely through the rearview mirror. If she is a woman who is open-minded both mentally and emotionally, then this man has achieved two goals at once. He may find a "strategic location" to stop the car and naturally open the rear door.
Detail Two: Organizing colleague gatherings during holidays
Every year there are various holidays, and in the office, there will be men who enthusiastically organize group dinners. On the surface, it seems like everyone gathers together for some fun, but in reality, these men are looking to find romantic feelings from the opposite sex that they don't usually experience in their daily work. At such times, men will use all sorts of tricks to drink with their female colleagues, and unsuspecting women might think their male colleagues are just being very enthusiastic. In fact, they are waiting for the women to drink to a certain extent and fall into their arms.
Detail Three: Inviting female colleagues to play mahjong together
Nowadays, mahjong has become a social tool; it's not just for entertainment or gambling. During breaks, office staff often gather to play mahjong. At such times, men will certainly think of their favorite female colleague, someone they haven’t had the chance to properly show off to in the office. On the mahjong table, there are no reservations. Men may then perform scenes under the mahjong table where they step on their female colleague's foot—a gesture that women can easily understand. If the woman places her foot on his as well, then the man's plan after the game becomes even more interesting, using professional mahjong terms—it means "following."
Detail Four: Always having QQ online on the computer
If you pay attention to the office computers of men, you will notice that many people keep their QQ accounts logged in. Such men are likely interested in a female colleague in the office and are perhaps feeling lonely. Thus, they choose this modern method of communication. However, since office settings don’t allow voice chat or video calls, these men remain cautious yet still miss their crushes.
Detail Five: Staring at women through the window glass
Men rarely face-to-face stare at female colleagues without official business, but this doesn't mean they're emotionless. For a woman in the same office, men generally adopt a more convenient method—observing her through the room's window glass. Perhaps their paperwork isn’t finished, but their minds are somewhat distracted, so their eyes unconsciously look toward the window. It appears as though they're relieving visual fatigue, but in reality, they're carefully observing the woman reflected in the glass. These men tend to be more cautious and meticulous.
Detail Six: Carefully pouring tea for the female colleague across the desk
In the office, two people often sit facing each other. If it's the same gender, men generally don’t take any special actions, but once the person across is a woman, men always choose to pour tea for their female colleague before drinking themselves. On the surface, it seems unremarkable, but this cup of tea is far from accidental. Such men are usually more imaginative. The moment they pour tea for their female colleague, their hearts are already wandering, and they wish to smell the perfume on her while performing this action, immersing themselves in their fantasies.
Detail Seven: Buying lunch for the female colleague first
Sometimes, the cafeteria food gets boring, and the office changes its taste. At lunchtime, diligent men quickly buy boxed meals for their female colleagues in the same office, personally handing them over and even setting up the chopsticks. Such men are generally more calculating, focusing on long-term plans. Once a woman faces a marriage crisis or is abandoned by her husband, she immediately remembers this caring man and his attentiveness. It could be that due to the previous five or six yuan worth of boxed meals, an unexpected encounter might occur.
Detail Eight: Taking female colleagues on business trips
There are two situations when taking female colleagues on business trips: one is when the man decides, choosing any female colleague to accompany him, suggesting that he is a small leader; the other is when assigned by the boss. Regardless of which situation, having a woman along makes the trip pleasant. After finishing official business, such men usually choose cozy hotels, making the two feel like lovers on a date, giving the woman a sense of "true affection away from home." Especially those emotionally vulnerable women may not resist the man's deep gaze, leading to an easy performance of a "romantic love story on the road."
Detail Nine: Carefully combing their hair in front of the mirror
In the office, there are dressing mirrors, and many people think that women use them the most. But that's not true. According to statistics, men spend more time in front of mirrors than women, especially middle-aged men who mostly tidy their hairstyles in front of mirrors. Since a man's hair represents his spirit, this makes middle-aged balding men worry about their image in front of female colleagues. Such men may seem natural while combing their hair, but in reality, they are preserving their fading sex appeal to attract women.
Detail Ten: Keeping wet wipes in their bags
There are some men who, in social occasions with women, thoughtfully take out a pack of wet wipes. Such men are relatively smart because taking out a pack of condoms might embarrass people, but wet wipes won’t. Men use this method to tell women: we can have sex anytime, even if there’s no bathroom in the room, the wet wipes are considered hygienic enough. Such men understand "prevention and seizing good opportunities."