The ability to provoke survival: good at finding answers in reality
1. Adjust your attitude and dare to face reality
For those who keep complaining about the harshness of reality, an unsatisfactory reality is like a cage of life, binding both limbs and mind and body. Therefore, they often succumb to the pressure of reality and become fragile people; while those who truly achieve great things dare to challenge reality and temper their survival skills in reality. That's called a strong person!
Here, we can draw a lesson for achieving great things: adapt to the changes in reality and quickly change our own concepts. The most important thing is that we need a smart mind and clever eyes, and be thoughtful in life.
Under the pressure of reality, if you can change your concept and advance in time, you can achieve twice the result with half the effort.
Our survival cannot be separated from reality for a moment. With the change of facts, we must adjust our own views, thoughts, behaviors and goals accordingly. This is a necessity for survival.
If we have a way to change reality and make it suitable for the development needs of our abilities and desires, then it is the most precious.
2. Let you have a strong self-control
Self-control means overcoming desires. Don't get anxious because of a little pressure, or lose your temper when encountering something unpleasant.
A person cannot control others unless he controls himself first.
As long as a person has the goal of achieving great things, knows what he wants, and then takes action, tell yourself never to give up. Success is just a matter of time.
If you encounter trouble or obstacles on the way, face it, solve it, and then continue to move forward, so that problems will not accumulate more and more.
When you are climbing step by step, never say no to yourself, because it may lead to the动摇of your confidence, abandon your goal, and thus give up halfway.
The hardest thing for people to overcome is themselves. This means that the biggest obstacle to a person's success does not come from the outside, but from within. Only by controlling yourself can you control the pressure and make the pressure bow before you.
3. Put emotions into the box of rationality
The emergence of a contradictory emotion is often imperceptible, but its impact on a person's life is great, which is reflected in many small things. We should try to eliminate our bad emotions, because they not only cause physical and mental harm to us, but sometimes become stumbling blocks on our way to success.
For your success, you must put your emotions into the box of rationality. You must adapt to others and the situation. Otherwise, you are doomed not to achieve great things and will be eliminated.
4. Being alone can stimulate the power of thought
If you know how to be alone, those who achieve great things are good at being alone - stimulating the power of thought in the process of being alone.
Arrogance can be like a mountain that crushes a person and makes him silent forever, or it can be like a propellant that generates powerful momentum.
Taking one step ahead of others can create a successful mood.
When you are alone, you should think about something, don't always be busy with nothing.
5. Pressure is the best driving force
For those who want to achieve great things, due to lofty goals, the pressure may be greater. But if you want to achieve great things, you must be able to bear this pressure and turn the pressure into the driving force of life.
People's most outstanding work is often done under adverse conditions. In order to achieve something, you have to give up something. What should be done must be done well, and what should not be done must not be done.
What you get is not necessarily worth celebrating, and what you lose is not entirely a bad thing.
6. Adaptability is the key to a bright future
Adapting to the times, being good at changing, and timely adjusting your action plan is a way for those who achieve great things to adapt to reality.
If a person does not have the sophisticated skills to deal with people, without considering all kinds of situations comprehensively, and flexible response tactics, he will be unable to control the big situation and will find it difficult to achieve great things.
If a person can see his current situation clearly, his mentality will be balanced a lot, and he can treat and understand the world with an objective eye, and adjust his actions accordingly.
7. Self-confidence is a strong pillar of life
The adaptability of those who are full of self-confidence is high, otherwise the adaptability is relatively low.
People who usually lack confidence often have some physical and mental symptoms, such as loneliness, fear of socializing, overly radical speech, pessimism and disappointment.
If the experience of doing things successfully is more, then the self-confidence will be stronger.
The less opportunities for self-success training, the weaker the self-confidence, and even serious feelings of inferiority may arise.
The 19th century thinker Emerson said: Believe in yourself, and you will be invincible. Napoleon said: There is no impossibility in my dictionary.
8. Focus your energy on your strengths
Most people's living standards only stay at: eating for food, taking public transport for transportation, working for work, and going home for home.
The difference between those who achieve great things and those who do not lies in some small actions: spending 5 minutes reading every day, making one more phone call, trying a little harder, showing off at the right opportunity, putting a little more effort in performance, doing more research, or experimenting one more time in the laboratory.
Before taking action, you already know whether you are competent for this task.
There is no excuse to explain why you cannot be competent for a job for a long time.
No matter what you want to pursue, you must force yourself to improve your ability to achieve your goal.
Practice more, train more, and train more in the end! Never stop learning, and apply what you have learned to daily life.
9. Focus on doing one thing well
If most people concentrate on one job, they can all do it well.
The most successful businessmen are those who can make quick and decisive decisions. They always set a clear goal first and focus all their efforts and attention on this goal.
Focusing on one thing at a time, putting your whole heart into it, and actively hoping for its success, so that your mind will not feel exhausted.
Imagine what you need to do as a small drawer in a large row of drawers. Don't always think about all the drawers, but focus your energy on the drawer you have opened. Everyone's methods of dealing with people and things are different. It can be said that each person has a method, and each person has a path to success through their own methods. Countless facts show that some people are too confident, thinking that their confirmed methods can solve any problem, but they don't realize that these methods often fail to play any role. Therefore, they always feel that they are not getting closer to the goal of success, but in fact they are getting further and further away.