In fact, every family has its own set of living standards. As a newlywed woman, don't try to change these rules. The best measure is to learn to play dumb, and then try to change after slowly adapting to the family.
For women who become wives, the worst thing is that their husband becomes a second mother; for men who become husbands, they fear that their wife becomes a second strict father.
When dealing with the meticulous observations of family members, it is also necessary to pay attention to the following two points to avoid creating crisis in the new marriage.
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1. Look at every matter from multiple perspectives
How can you say that? Or how can you do that? These are very common criticisms, showing that respecting each other is not so simple to achieve.
Not long after Hongyan got married, she encountered a long weekend. Her husband wanted to show off his cooking skills by making two dishes. In the middle of cooking, he asked his wife: "If I cut the meat too wide, can you still eat it?" The straightforward wife replied: "Cutting it wider is also a style." "As long as you cook it, I will definitely like it." After hearing this, how could her husband not be happy?
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Whenever there were guests at home, the husband always praised Hongyan appropriately during the reception. Naturally, Hongyan felt at ease.
After returning home, the husband liked to tell his wife about his day's experiences. At this time, Hongyan would always guide him flexibly. Therefore, their relationship has always been good.
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2. Emphasize important issues and ignore unimportant ones
Chen Ran said: Life has taught me one thing - turn a blind eye.
This phrase also applies to marriage. Men and women in marriage should not be overly concerned, sensitive, or tense about everything the other half or family members do.
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For women who become wives, the worst thing is that their husband becomes a second mother; for men who become husbands, they fear that their wife becomes a second strict father. Therefore, in the trivialities of family life, if one or both parties constantly nag while the other party is forced to endure without receiving tolerance and a relaxed living atmosphere, the outcome of this family will be unimaginable in the long run.
If you are a meticulous person who pursues perfection and enjoys being versatile in social interactions, be sure not to have the habit of nagging, otherwise, it might pose a risk of disrupting an otherwise harmonious family. So, after getting married, when we encounter situations where we are observed, emphasize what’s important and ignore what’s not.