Words written beforehand: Life cannot be lived again, and love and marriage have no "ifs". Messing with love is messing with life, and belittling marriage is belittling oneself. Love depends on fate, but whether it's sweet or not can only rely on oneself; Marriage requires courage, but happiness or not cannot be separated from management. All of these are not predestined by heaven, only those who know how to protect and cherish can win the love of life and death and the marriage of sticking together.
If Written by Ai Yanshuangfei
If love could start over
Destiny could encounter again
If meeting
Could be earlier or later
Then
We can love purely
Or simply pass each other by
Pain would not be as big as it is now
Without sweetness, only parting
If marriage could start over
Sincerity could always follow
If arguing
Could be avoided or lessened
Then
Love would have less suspicion
Affection would have more warmth
Home wouldn't be like this, not feeling like home
Besides sorrow, there is pain
However
Life is not writing a novel
There are not so many "ifs"
It cannot be erased and started over
The past can only let it pass
The future needs to be cherished
(Written for friends in the dilemma of love and marriage. The "we" in the text does not refer to me. Writing in the first person makes it more intimate and more infectious.)