In the quiet of the night, it's a wonderful time for couples to whisper sweet nothings to each other by the pillow.
According to a report from a well-known American men's online magazine, research indicates that pillow talk can make the relationship between couples closer and their marriage happier. For women, pillow talk is even more important. Because whispering sweet words with the one they love is a process where their bodies and minds are in harmony, making her feel extremely happy.
Sexology researcher Jasmine Lee points out that pillow talk doesn't need to last long, usually about five to six minutes is sufficient. Both partners should preferably lie on their sides facing each other, or the husband can hold the wife in his arms. If lying flat on your back, the interaction and sense of communication between the two will weaken, and at the same time, you won’t be able to feel the sweetness of the warm breath of the other person brushing against your face.
What does your lover want to hear?
Almost all women wish to get their partner’s full attention in such an intimate setting. At this moment, you might as well compliment her more on how beautiful, smart, and interesting she is, or express how deeply you love her. Surveys show that people like to hear their names called by their loved ones because it increases intimacy and makes them feel important. Therefore, the wife can give her husband a nickname and call him by it more often during pillow talk.
Moreover, topics such as vacations, hiking trips, enjoying a world of two, etc., which are based on aspirations for a better future life, if discussed before going to sleep, will also increase the couple's anticipation and confidence for the future.
In the quiet of the night, it's a wonderful time for couples to whisper sweet nothings to each other by the pillow. According to a report from a famous American male online magazine, research shows that pillow talk can make the relationship between couples closer and their marriage happier. For women, pillow talk is even more important. Because whispering sweet words with the one they love is a process where their bodies and minds are in harmony, making her feel extremely happy.
Sexology researcher Jasmine Lee points out that pillow talk doesn't need to last a long time, generally five to six minutes is enough. Both partners should preferably lie on their sides back-to-back, or the husband can hold the wife in his arms. If lying flat on your back, the interaction and sense of communication between the two will weaken, and at the same time, they won't be able to feel the sweetness of the warm breath of the other person brushing against their face.
What your lover doesn't want to hear
You must not say some negative, critical, or mood-killing words at such an intimate time. Pillow talk should avoid sounding like an interrogation, which would make the other person feel as if they're not in a warm, considerate bedside setting but being judged, leading to an even worse mood. Pillow talk should also avoid complaints about work or gossiping about others' affairs. These will only make the other person feel annoyed, akin to a mental torture.
Sometimes, after a busy day at work, one of the partners may not feel like talking much. The other side shouldn't force too much; instead, just saying tenderly "Dear, I want to hug you," then affectionately cuddling together and quietly soothing each other's body and mind is sufficient. Or, under the soft moonlit-like lighting, looking deeply into each other's eyes, allowing the praise and appreciation in your heart to be expressed through eye contact, adding another layer of charm to the moment.
Almost all women hope to gain their partner's full attention in such an intimate environment. At this time, it might be good to compliment her on how beautiful, smart, and interesting she is, or express how deeply you love her. Research shows that people enjoy hearing their names called by their loved ones because it increases intimacy and makes them feel important. So, the wife can give her husband a pet name and call him by it more often during pillow talk.
Additionally, topics such as vacations, outings, enjoying a world of two, etc., built on aspirations for a better future life, if imagined before sleeping, will also increase the couple's anticipation and confidence for the future.