Know how to enjoy and consume, but not be wasteful. In the minds of many men, famous cars, beauties, money, and mansions are capital to be proud of, and sensory indicators to satisfy vanity. They directly identify substances as they think silk is much nobler than cotton, but fail to distinguish between the texture and beauty of silk and cotton. They limit their evaluation of beauties to three-dimensional figures and appearances, and do not want to know the connotations beyond the three-dimensional figures and appearances. They are successful men who have everything: famous cars, beauties, money, and mansions. However, they lack one thing, a realm that they can never reach: elegance.
Enjoyment is not extravagance, and consumption does not equal throwing money around like water. An elegant man has delicate and refined feelings towards life. His understanding of things and his hearing of sounds all show a vigorous spirit. He reveals his interesting temperament in unintentional calmness and composure. His state of mind, soul, and emotions will never grow old with the passage of time.
An elegant man is definitely not an idle person. He belongs to the busy group. However, he will not lose interest because of being busy. When he hurriedly walks out of the airport, during a break in a meeting, or after signing a contract, he will open his mobile phone, hide his fatigue, and convey his feelings to the person he loves, even if there are only a few light words. When tired, alone, lighting a cigarette, silently feeling, he can miss, recall a glance that made his heart beat, a regret, inner secrets, and experience short-term loneliness alone.
An elegant man is devoted and passionate about love, but never overly sentimental or dissolute. His passion is deeply hidden in the stirring of his soul. He will never hurt any woman, and the woman he is passionate about is a happy woman.
An elegant man has a strong sense of responsibility for his family. Even when indulging in another love, it will not affect his care for his family. An elegant man does not pretend. He will balance the scales of emotion. He will not mess up his own and others' lives.
An elegant man's thinking is always so sharp, full of wisdom and humor. He will not become fat without reason, and his eyes will not become dull, even when he is old.
An elegant man is always clean and tidy, with neat collars. There will always be a pleasant faint manly smell on him, and there will be no unpleasant smell of excessive hormones. As the famous French writer Proust wrote in "In Search of Lost Time": "When time passes and all things disappear, the smell lingering in the air still lingers..."
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