Respect his character and time, ultimately for a girl to stabilize will be better! But the realization of Beijing's housing prices made me take a deep breath, for someone whose monthly income can only buy half a square meter, that idea is a luxury! Finally, I realized that all I wanted was a house of my own, so I could move out my already warm home, but it seems so difficult to give him the remaining dignity in public. It involves aspects of the family. Take an example, running a family is like running a business, focusing on production, promoting sales, making profits, and reinvesting. A family needs to generate wealth to sustain life, then transform that wealth into spirit, having a cozy nest, three meals a day, this is the basic situation. In this process, material factors need to be permeated to form a harmonious family and peaceful marital relationship. In a family, people are equal, everyone has their own time, don't be overly neurotic about others' time. One must remain somewhat naive. Only then can one maintain good relationships... The mother is the baby's first doctor. In a harmonized and warm family, the baby lives a carefree and happy life. Parents often tell stories to their children, take them on trips, visit gardens, listen to music, etc., all of which are beneficial for children to receive multi-faceted knowledge, cultivate interests and hobbies, making them curious and eager to learn about everything around them. Plus, with parents' meticulous care in daily life, babies in such an atmosphere are bound to be healthy and wise. Living together, personalized things become very real: from two people who were once strangers from different corners of the world, we met online, saw each other, fell in love, got engaged, and after a year, we were no longer young teenagers. We had experienced the trauma of marriage and the baptism of life, making our love and marriage more mature than others. But in terms of speed, we were ahead of the curve. A year and a half after we met, we got married, and a year later, we had a child. To welcome the birth of our child, I kept my job locally, being a little housewife, wanting him to do housework when needed, during arguments, the woman is not allowed to hang up the phone, if she does, she must call back immediately and apologize. If the man hangs up during an argument, the woman must call back within a second, if the phone doesn't go through, call the mobile phone, in short, there should be no surrender, keep calling even if hung up multiple times, but the man also needs to give the woman face, each call should not exceed 5 times. Shouting isn't as effective as cooing. Thinking of another colleague, Xiao Gao, he has a main house in his hometown, a place in the department, and then moved to a gardener's neighborhood. Once visiting his hometown, what used to be a beautiful little villa, now full of dirt due to long-term vacancy, looked somewhat eerie. On holidays, they stay in the department-assigned house several times, every Sunday or holiday, it doesn't feel like home, quite desolate, often locked tightly with a big lock. Recently, he is planning to buy a house in his wife's department. He often says, even buying a small appliance requires four copies, we also joked, where are you going home tonight? He said, I haven't managed to have a decent home, it's like guerrilla warfare. Do what you can at home, don't overly rely on him, hinting at him: without you, I can still stand tall. We both feel great, each person has their own personality, personal time, and friends, don't just stay at home idly, occasionally go out and gather with friends. Hinting at him: you're not my whole world. Divorced families are almost unique, for us young siblings, it's no different than heaven collapsing and earth shattering. On the day the verdict was announced, the older siblings knew their respective destinations: the eldest brother, second brother, and second sister would live with father, the eldest sister and I would live with our remarried mother, siblings would be separated, not knowing what future encounters would bring? Truly overwhelmed with sorrow, crying yet fearing others hearing, the older siblings quickly closed the towering doors that used to be called windows one by one. Saying misfortune is a kind of ability, how does this judgment come about? I know I don't love him at all. I just want to find a man to marry. In prolonged contact with him, I know he has fallen madly in love with me. In an era where chastity concepts are still very strong, my experiences make me extremely self-conscious. Being able to get married, living a moderately prosperous life, j3 - a pharmaceutical salesman's years-long secret, makes me very satisfied. As for love, whether it exists or not is no longer important. Summarizing myself, after all, I haven't encountered major storms in life, not being forced by reality precisely stimulates my belief that there is beauty in life, genuine feelings, even though this may not be fitting for my current age. This belief stems from encountering many kind-hearted and wonderful people in life, feeling grateful while also celebrating my luck. Although I dare not claim to be beautiful and confident, I strive excessively towards this goal, guarding my position like the eight-year resistance war, silently protecting my territory, keeping tight-lipped about my grievances. Not for the envy of others, but to give my husband a new concept of life. This war continues until the baby is ten months old, which was last month. Whether further struggle is needed, understanding what fate truly means, what mutual love and care mean, and what respect and concession mean. Because, whenever we have friction and argue over trivial matters of life, we think about each other, because we both deeply love each other .