1. Believe in a truth: In this world, only parents are always good to you. Friends may turn against you for benefits, boyfriends may betray you at any time, and husbands may commit adultery. Only parents are wholeheartedly devoted to you. You are 25 years old now, do you remember how you upset them during your rebellious phase, and how they cried and begged you not to go astray. You are 25 years old now, your parents are almost over fifty. The time you have left to be good to them is not much. Do not cry and say that you were young and ignorant and did not take good care of your parents when it's too late.
2. Yes, you have reached the legal marriage age, but you don't have to rush into marriage. Perhaps you are in a passionate romance now, and you both pledge to be together for life. But you are only 25 years old, you do not know how long a lifetime really is. Life is lived, not imagined. Marriage is not just about two people, it's about two families. The old saying of "equal social status" in marriage is not without reason. Marriage should be approached with the mindset that it is a once-in-a-lifetime commitment, so you must be careful when choosing. Treat love as love. Marriage can wait.
3. Grand declarations of love are for those in their teens. You are 25 years old now. Don't do silly things that others will laugh at. What about not coming home at night, arguing on the street, threatening to die, crying, making a scene, or threatening suicide. Those reckless acts, those youthful arrogance, we've experienced enough. At 25, learn to be calm and composed. Girls should live proudly, not love humbly.
4. Boyfriend, better to have none than a bad one. Do not fall in love because of loneliness, or follow the crowd. At 25, learn to take responsibility for your own life.
5. Things you like, don't expect others to buy them for you. At 25, no matter whether you've played games before, you've passed the age of ambiguity. Women need to be independent, economic independence is fundamental.
6. If a man tells you he doesn't deserve you, believe him. A man who says he doesn't deserve you will never deserve you! Love has nothing to do with ability or money!
7. Know your goals and strive for them. What nonsense about women being virtuous by being uneducated. To marry well, first you must be talented. The key issue here is not marrying well. It's about you living well. At 25, do you want to study abroad? Find a job? Or continue studying? At 25, you're not far from entering society, are you ready?
8. Keep your promises, be tough on yourself when necessary, avoid indecision and lingering attachments. Being soft on yourself won't lead to great achievements. At 25, you need to face reality and stop daydreaming all day.
9. If you're in a relationship, do not give everything away. If you reveal everything, what will you have left for your future husband? Girls, learn to be good to yourself, don't invest everything in so-called "potential stocks". No matter when, always know what cards you hold.
10. Learn to be slick in dealing with people. At 25, others won't treat you as a child anymore, your mistakes won't be tolerated. Smiling at people and things you don't like is something we must learn to endure.
11. Thank everyone who has hurt you. Then on your 25th birthday, wave to them and say, I no longer hate you. Leave grudges behind in your youth before 25. You've grown up, you need to face harm.
12. Don't play around with non-mainstream stuff. You're not part of the post-90s generation, nor are you a chubby pig. Rather, learn to apply makeup, not smoky eyes, but elegant and appropriate light makeup. An interviewer from a large company once told me, girls who wear light makeup are given priority. Why? Because if you don't even care about your appearance, what else do you care about? There are no ugly women in the world, only lazy ones.
13. Losing weight, talking about it is fine. When you really become stick-thin, you'll find a series of diseases such as low blood pressure, hypoglycemia, dizziness, blurred vision accompanying you. And there might even be stomach cancer. At 25, you need to know that you still have a long way to go, and a healthy body is your guarantee to move forward.
14. For those who sow discord, do not report them. Let them act out their drama, let them perform and try to cover up. Then tell them, you actually know everything. Then smile, and leave.
15. Whoever is good to you, be good to them. Interpersonal relationships are always reciprocal. There is no obligation for anyone to be good to you. At 25, open your eyes, remember who is good to you, and reciprocate.
16. Turn around faster than your tears. This is essential. At 25, you must learn to bear sadness, you must know that sadness will pass. Often tell yourself, I can be brave. Don't, absolutely don't, easily shed tears in front of others. If others see your tears too often, they will think your tears are worthless.
17. You might have done many absurd things before. But please don't think they are shameful. Please don't feel they are burdens. At 25, this is a new beginning in your life.
18. Always prepare a smile for yourself. Tell yourself, I can do it! You're not young anymore, you need to work harder!
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