The investigation in Guangzhou revealed that 60% of female college students are willing to marry "rich second generation". The "Red Paper on the Values of Female College Students in Guangzhou" showed that 59.2% of female college students are willing to marry "rich second generation", with the reason being that they do not want to struggle for many years, which is more than half of the total number of successful people; In addition, most male college students have no intention of marrying an iron rice bowl. (April 12th, Northern Metropolitan Newspaper)
The investigation showed that 60% of female college students were willing to marry the "rich second generation". My personal view is that in reality, this proportion should be even higher - the characteristic of Chinese people is "restrained", so all female college students may secretly want it but are unwilling to admit it publicly. It is not surprising at all that female college students are willing to marry the "rich second generation". Concepts like "graduates of prestigious universities still end up as slum dwellers", "as long as there's a house, I'd rather be an old third", "better to get wet than marry badly", "would rather marry Huang Shiran than an 80s born", etc., these views once despised and even cursed upon by others are quietly reviving among female college students.
How to receive and use one's own youth is the freedom of each female college student, and it's none of other people's business to comment. This brings me to think about the difficult situation of male college students: women can gamble their youth for tomorrow, but what should male college students do?
Without any doubt, as long as female college students have some looks, plus the golden signboard of "college graduates", finding a man with better economic ability is not too difficult. Even if that man is a little older, or has been married before, what does it matter? After all, the original intention of marriage is to "live ten years of sweet life", and the rest can be compromised.
Male college students, however, do not have such an "advantage". Their chances of exchanging youth for a comfortable life are much lower. As men pretend to be "easy" - from the moment they graduate, such heavy burdens follow them closely. Without fighting, there is no future, and this world does not believe in tears. Although "men laughing is not a sin", even if they cry, men have to find a place where no one is around. Otherwise, instead of sympathy, they will face disdain.
There is another very practical question. When female college students are busy marrying "successful men", male college students face the embarrassment of "resource scarcity" when looking for partners. No one says it, but graduating for female college students means lovers going separate ways; I would say, graduating for all "humble background" male college students means being sentenced to "life imprisonment without wife". What should they do? The easiest shortcut is to learn from some female college students, find a daughter of a rich family or cling to a wealthy woman. Of course, the price of doing so is giving up men's dignity, and I believe it will be despised by the majority. Apart from that, there is only struggle, relying on everyone's efforts to fight for a piece of sky. Go ahead, just like the male protagonist in "High Noon", climb to a high place to overlook the prosperity of the lower social classes, and then firmly shout: "Now let's have a go!"
Only the rainbow that has experienced wind and rain is the most beautiful. After several years, those male college students who were once poor have finally joined the ranks of "successful men" through arduous efforts. They finally breathe a sigh of relief and gain respect from society. Perhaps they can also date young and beautiful female college students. This might be the dream and motivation for struggle for many male college students. When they get everything they want, what kind of feelings will they have when they look back on their past youth and hardships? What kind of taste will they experience when they wake up from a noon nap?
Female college students are busy marrying the "rich second generation", what will male college students do? No one knows. I just want to give them four words: straighten your spine!