In this world, no matter how many rich people there are, they still make up only a small part of the population, while most men are not wealthy. Women, how do you choose when faced with these issues? I think that from a young age, families often instill in girls the idea of finding a good man. In the standard for a "good man," money is usually one of the criteria, at least having a house or something like that. But what would you do if one day you find out that the man you love has nothing? Would you have the courage to marry him? Some say choosing a man is like choosing a stock. But how can you, as a woman, be sure that the man you choose is a blue-chip stock? If that man remains poor, would you be willing to share his hardships? Would you occasionally feel a sense of loss in life? A friend of mine encountered such a dilemma: After graduating from university and without much trouble, I joined the ranks of those who work from nine to five. However, it was also around that time that my Ph.D. boyfriend, who worked at a Fuzhou online company, broke up with me for no reason. For that first love, I was heartbroken. Every day, except during working hours, I could pretend to be fine. But after work, I would retreat to internet cafes, passing the time by chatting with strangers online. I added people recklessly, then deleted them just as quickly. In front of the webcam, I cried without restraint. I didn't know how long it would take for me to let go, to come to terms with it. On QQ, I added him. He typed slowly, so we chatted using voice instead. Sometimes, I didn’t want to talk, I just wanted to let my feelings flow through my fingertips (my typing speed kept up with his). Later, he suggested we meet, as he happened to be near where I lived for some errands. That’s how we naturally met. I loved playing, and later, he basically took me out every weekend. As long as I said I wanted to go somewhere, he would take me. We visited almost all the big and small tourist spots in Beijing. He never made me pay for anything when we were together. He treated me better and better. Knowing that I disliked smoking and drinking, he quit on his own initiative. I had never asked him to do that. Now, I want to leave him. He doesn't have a degree, only an elementary school education. His job is in logistics, with a monthly salary of 1500 yuan, and currently no savings. His height is the same as mine, and he doesn't own a house... Apart from being very kind to me, he has nothing. I don't care about others' worldly opinions, saying how mismatched we are. I just care about whether, if I really stay with him and live a poor life, we can last long in the face of real-life challenges. That girl is confused. She doesn't know how to proceed, whether she should choose this man who has no money. This question also brings uncertainty to women and men facing choices. With an uncertain future, where will you go? This is a realistic society. When dreams collide with reality, they are always shattered into pieces.