Men will never understand: when a woman says she wants a breakup, it's because she wants to be retained! Men will never understand: when a woman says she wants a breakup, it's because she wants to be retained!
When in love, a woman will repeatedly suggest: "Let's break up!"
The man instinctively becomes angry. He may suspect whether she has betrayed him for someone new. He may scold her harshly out of frustration with her seeming indifference. And at the moment she truly turns away, the man can only watch her leave with a mixture of sorrow and anger without uttering a word of retention.
The woman waits along the way for the man to come running after her, grabbing her hand, retaining her, saying: "Baby, I love you! Don't go!" But when her tears have dried and she hears no sound, their romance comes to an end.
How could men understand women? When they say they want a breakup, it’s just because they want to be retained!
Every time she suggests a breakup, the woman feels fear that you might really leave. Every time she suggests a breakup, she waits for you to retain her, showing her that you care, that you don’t want her to leave. Every time she suggests a breakup, she feels helpless due to some subtle changes in you that make her unsure if you still love her as much. So she stakes abandonment as a gamble; if she loses, it simply means you didn’t love her enough! Each time the breakup becomes a reality, the woman is heartbroken. Why doesn’t the man understand the heart of the woman?
When a woman suggests a breakup, it’s because she truly loves you! It’s because she cares too much about you! It’s because some subtle changes in you make the woman panic! Make her feel uneasy! It’s because the woman wants to know if you still love her!
The woman thinks that the uncertainty and confusion in love will give her enough courage to prepare herself for the worst possible answer from the man. The woman thinks that love is like a switch—snap and it opens, snap and it closes. The woman believes that cutting off the power supply in time can avoid destruction. The woman believes that breaking up can solve all the puzzles, pain, and depression. The woman believes that slow growth can heal the fractures here. The woman thinks that when she says she wants a breakup, you will retain her!
However, this is just the woman's one-sided wish. How many men silently watch their beloved women leave without retaining them? The woman’s heart cools down. Why doesn’t the man understand the heart of the woman?
The woman can only hum sad songs alone in the dark night, washing away the bitterness in her heart with tears over and over again…
You don't love me enough
Perhaps one day
Remembering you will be something very distant
That day, in the future of the future
Further away, there is aging, even further away, there is death!
Close by is the breakup, but actually, it's because she truly loves you, fears losing you too much! But you will never understand! Still don't understand!
It's destined that we cannot last forever!
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