A good marriage is a kind of balance.

by yang266rxue on 2012-03-09 11:35:21

A: She: "Honey, can you get me a glass of water?" He: "Let's play rock-paper-scissors. Whoever loses will go." She: "Never mind, I'll go myself."

B: They sit together watching Korean drama. She gets up. He asks, "Where are you going?" She: "To get a glass of water." He: "You stay here and watch. I'll get it for you."

A: He calls her after work at night, "Baby, I'm going out to dinner with friends tonight." She: "Didn't you promise to go shopping with me?" He: "Let's do it another day!" She silently sheds tears. Why is it always like this?

B: He calls her when he finishes work: "Dear, someone gave me an Olympic ticket, Brazil team! I'm going to watch the game soon." She: "Oh, I see. Alright then." He: "Why aren't you happy?" She: "You forgot. Last week you said that my friend and her boyfriend would treat us to dinner today." He: "Oops, sorry dear, I forgot. Then I'll give the ticket to someone else, and I'll accompany you to dinner." She: "No need. We can change the dinner to another day. Or you go watch the game first, we'll wait for you." He: "That's not possible. I must keep my promise to you. Besides, you'll be like a third wheel when you're with them. You'll definitely feel uncomfortable." She: "It's fine..." Before she could finish, he strongly told her, "Alright, listen to me, tidy up, I'll pick you up later."

A: He: "I'm going out to eat tonight." She: "What time will you come back?" He: "Definitely home before nine." At 9:30, she: "Why haven't you come back yet?" He: "Ten o'clock. Definitely home." Eleven. Twelve. One. Two... Later, she no longer called to urge him because she knew that for men who don't keep their promises, all "definitely" are "not necessarily."

B: He: "I'm going out to eat tonight. Definitely finished before nine. Then we'll go watch a movie." She: "Can you finish so quickly?" He: "Don't worry. I've promised you, I definitely can!" Close to nine o'clock. He: "Tidy up a bit. I'll be at your place soon."

A: She is on her period, feeling unwell, enduring pain while washing clothes and cleaning the house. He sits in front of the computer playing online games. After she finishes, she lies down on the bed, sighing deeply. He looks at her: "Honey, you worked hard!" Then turns around and continues playing his game.

B: She is on her period, feeling very unwell, getting up to prepare to wash clothes. He pulls her: "Go lie down on the bed. I'll do it!" She: "Do you know how to do housework? Have you ever washed clothes yourself?" He: "If I don't know how, I can learn. In the future, whenever you're unwell, I should naturally take care of everything!"

A: She gives him a pack of hazelnuts, then goes to wash clothes. When she comes back, the hazelnuts have been eaten by him almost completely.

B: She gives him a pack of hazelnuts, then goes to clean the house herself. When she comes back, she sees a pile of shelled hazelnut kernels in front of the computer.

A: He says, "You're the best." She asks, "What's good about me?" He: "High education, capable, pretty, and so good to me." She smiles.

B: He: "You're the best girl I've ever met." She: "What's good about me?" He: "You are very kind and selfless to everyone around you, always grateful to people and life, one person has a kind heart, which makes people around you feel warm, you are the most kind-hearted girl I've ever seen, those who hurt you should go to hell!" She cries.

Some people think you're nice just because you're good to them, but they never think to act accordingly themselves. Some people, however, understand your kindness and want to be kind to you too. Actually, women aren't unreasonable; they just need to meet a reasonable man. Relationships should be mutual.