1. Being humiliated by others and turning against them is not as good as turning over a new leaf; the Tissot fashion series, being angry is not as good as striving for improvement.
2. Face opposing opinions by listening and thinking.
3. Making mistakes when young and reckless is not strange, but correcting mistakes and improving oneself makes one a true hero.
4. Matters of regret should not be spoken about carelessly.
5. Lies cannot be shelved nor should they be dwelled upon.
6. Do not overly concern yourself with other people's expressions; do what you ought to do.
7. When sitting on the sidelines, one must be able to pick up and let go.
8. Honest people love wealth, but it must be obtained through proper means.
9. Men fear entering the wrong profession, women fear marrying the wrong person.
10. Make friends widely but avoid excessive promiscuity in friendships.
11. Dealing with matters through acquaintances or friends can often expedite processes.
12. If refused in job hunting, start from the bottom and use your abilities to prove yourself.
13. Before asking for a raise, ask yourself if you have sufficient justification.
14. Whether to switch jobs or not, think thrice before acting.
15. Discovering someone else’s secrets should treat their private affairs as fleeting clouds.
16. Winning an argument by being verbally quick does not mean winning.
17. In small conflicts, yield three points and remain calm; taking a step back opens up vast horizons.
18. If misunderstood by others, stay at peace within yourself, and the world will naturally feel broader.
19. Refuse others by having the courage to say "no"; speak up when necessary.
20. Be cautious and maintain a proper distance when dealing with bad people.
21. Do not let fame and profit blind your vision in the pursuit of honor and gain.
22. A good horse eats the grass it has passed over; a man who knows how to yield and stretch is a true man.
23. Mediate disputes by smoothing things over; peaceful resolutions win hearts.
24. When conversing, control your own mouth.
25. Criticize others gently, subtly, and skillfully.
26. Avoid hitting below the belt; don’t expose others' weaknesses.
27. "Changing faces" is both a skill and a necessity.
28. In business competition, do not monopolize profits; share some with others.
29. Learn to coexist with people you dislike.
30. People who complain constantly are most likely to suffer losses.
31. Endless cycles of revenge are fruitless; refraining from vengeance also marks a gentleman.
32. Forgive others with a forgiving heart and forgive yourself with a forgiving spirit.
33. Losing out sometimes actually means gaining something valuable.
34. Yielding in grace is the wisest emotional investment.
35. Under someone else's roof, know when to lower your head.
36. At life's crossroads, walk your path without regrets.
37. Seek help wisely by using others' strengths; seek help when necessary.
38. Treat ridicule as an opportunity to recognize flaws and correct mistakes.
39. In times of frustration, observe the flowers bloom and wither in the courtyard, and watch the clouds drift outside the sky.
40. When facing another's downfall, never boast about your own success.
41. A life full of ups and downs creates greatness.
42. Prove yourself through action, not words.
43. Adapt to what must be adapted and change what can be changed.
44. Strive to polish yourself; gold will always shine.
45. Infidelity is a heavy burden in life and causes pain in marriage.
46. Parting well requires dissolving amicably.
47. Pre-nuptial agreements measure love by what standard?
48. Trial marriages should be approached cautiously.
49. Quarrels between couples drain energy; there's no need to argue over who wins or loses.
50. Jealousy is the strongest poison that destroys love and happiness.