This topic actually reminds me of a novel I read many years ago. The novel tells the story of a woman who, after marriage, is often heartbroken and embarks on a weary journey in pursuit of love and marriage. She constantly suffers from society's and men’s numerous fussiness and the cruelty of reality. The heroine is nearly 40 years old; her youth and beauty have passed, so by worldly standards, she has lost her market value. No matter how good she may be in other aspects, in the hearts of Chinese men, she has become an object at the bottom of their selection list. Therefore, in the end of the novel, the female character finds happiness through online romance with a German girl. Unexpectedly, even in a distant foreign land, in the arms of a foreign man, amidst the gaps caused by language exchange and life habit differences that are not fully merged, she finds her happiness and discovers the stability of life and a secure family that she could never find domestically. The novel is called "The Disabled Woman." I read this book many years ago, but the words of its title have lingered in my heart for so many years like a needle pricking my mind, making me unable to forget. That sentence is: "Why do we choose? Because Chinese men are far away, and cannot afford to shoulder the dreams of Chinese women for love and marriage." Perhaps, for those who lead a stable and smooth family life, it is impossible to fully understand the feelings of this woman who marries a disabled man and harbors resentment. When reading the book, I was more confused than understanding. I couldn't comprehend why the author repeatedly questioned in the book: how exactly are Chinese men?! I thought it was just a novel. But as the years went by, I noticed there were more and more outstanding older women who couldn't find a good marriage. When I began to pay attention to and listen to their experiences, I was touched and shocked. Originally, behind most of the Chinese women who have moved far away, there are stories about the loss of confidence and responsibility in Chinese men. Especially a real-life incident involving a 50-year-old woman near me made me remember again that piercing question and answer. Let me tell you my girlfriend's story. It was a night three years ago when my girlfriend unexpectedly caught me free and said she had something to tell me. Then, we found a quiet teahouse and sat down. Looking at her slightly red eyes, I knew it must be an emotional issue. Yes, she told me that she wanted a divorce. I was surprised! As far as I know, her husband should be someone who is both career-oriented and good-looking. How could this be? And she was the one proposing the divorce. If there was no lost love leaning close, and virtual shell NFL and ESPN renewed daily price contract will still top the throne viewing3 Nowitzki set 28 + 12 Dallas won six straight cu...