When you spend the whole day around pots, pans, and kitchen utensils, you might think that he should be the one cooking for you, not the other way around. Being able to eat a meal outside is truly a luxury. Gradually, the time spent communicating with each other becomes less and less. One day, in a certain month and year, you suddenly realize that the person beside you is no longer the same person who once amazed you "in the dimly lit place." Would there be too much helplessness in your heart?
Don't marry the person you love the most. Actually, if you think about it carefully - "People who have loved but now tears tell of no fate" - isn't this also a kind of beauty? It's better than people who once loved each other causing harm and glaring at each other. Knowing what you possess is good, does the person who once loved me still think about the girl who used to cry a lot many years ago? Many years later, when you unexpectedly meet him again, you say again, "There really wasn't any fate." If we had been together back then, it would have been... You might feel bored and helpless, saying, "Is this really life?" You may even consider being with someone else, thinking that the sky outside the home is bluer. When you become a mother, you might feel that having children is really a burden, unable to play ball or dance like before. The lively and cute girl you once were is gone, replaced by the image of a virtuous wife and good mother.
Don't marry the person you love the most. "I don't care about forever, I only care about having possessed" absolutely has its reason. Think about it, when you are old and can only recall memories, perhaps a lifetime of staying together cannot compare to the fleeting beauty of a moment from those days. Since that moment of beauty was not continued, it has already become eternal! Is there really such a thing as forever and eternity? Are the vows once made still valid? Have the shared hardships once promised come true? Is the warmth once felt still present? Can the beautiful dreams once woven be realized in the future? What if you had chosen that fleeting moment of beauty back then?
Don't marry the person you love the most. Marital life brings us together. Life only happens once. Is there another chance for life or marriage? When you put on your wedding dress and walk towards the altar, have you seriously thought about it? Is your choice correct? In the days to come, regardless of poverty or illness, will you always be by his side? Will he be by yours? Can you give a satisfactory account for what you've done? Can you provide a good, stable home for your baby? My dear bride, whenever your married life brings dissatisfaction, you can always imagine, "If I had married the person I loved the most back then..."
Don't marry the person you love the most. "The most romantic thing I can think of is growing old with you" is indeed an ideal state, but real life is not romantic, sometimes even cruel, which will surely disappoint you greatly. There are no rocking chairs, no sunshine, no peaceful lives; the storms of real life have diluted the romance in your heart. Wanting to see the sea, there's no time; wanting to speak tender words, no one listens or understands; wanting to listen to music, there's no mood. Life makes couples strangers, without words, without understanding, without romance.
Don't marry the person you love the most. Marry someone who loves you more than you love him, and your disappointment will be much smaller. I am a woman, I need love, I need multiple times the amount of love. Does love really need promises? Do you understand me? Temporary separation is just a temporary comfort to oneself. Where is the best solution? Can the person who loves me give me a promise? Can they understand? Can they do anything for me? Can they give me a stable home, romantic love, and a warm heart?
As a woman, don't marry the person you love the most. Marriage brings you and your beloved together, heart to heart, staying together long-term. However, the eternal love in marriage is not nearly as romantic as you imagined. Time will smooth out all your sharp edges. The任性you once had is gone, and you begin to doubt the feelings between you and him that you once thought would never change.