1. Drug treatment mainly involves the use of antidepressants and sedatives. Antibiotics are used for patients with organic lesions to treat primary diseases, etc.
2. Psychological treatment mainly analyzes the mental factors leading to premature ejaculation, then conducts psychological counseling to eliminate the causes and establish normal ejaculatory conditioned reflexes.
A. After both parties understand the causes of sexual dysfunction triggered by premarital sexual behavior from a sexual psychology perspective, they should consciously reduce the frequency of marital life to break away from previously established unhealthy sexual psychological patterns.
B. In building new sexual psychological patterns, couples can start as lovers or first-time lovers, revisiting their love journey and retracing their romantic paths. Then, in a safe and warm family atmosphere, both parties can start anew and fully enjoy the beauty of life.
C. Wives should dress up carefully like they did during courtship, fully mobilizing and re-cultivating their husbands' sense of novelty towards them.
D. In future marital life, wives should intentionally maintain a certain distance, avoiding "compliance on demand," allowing husbands to continue reinforcing new sexual psychology and physiological signals.
3. Behavioral therapy
(1) By using anesthetics or similar drugs to lower the sensitivity of the glans penis.
(2) Through repeated training by the wife on the penis, delay the feeling of ejaculation urgency and increase the threshold for ejaculation.
A. Interrupted intercourse method: During sexual intercourse, when the male feels the urge to ejaculate, he immediately stops the thrusting of the penis but keeps it inside the vagina. When the female is sexually excited, the vagina expands, and the glans penis does not touch the vaginal wall, which can reduce the stimulation of the glans and lower sexual excitement. Once the urge to ejaculate has completely disappeared, sexual intercourse can resume. Repeated interrupted intercourse can prevent premature ejaculation.
B. Physical therapy: Ultra-short wave diathermy in the lumbar sacral area, warm water baths, mineral spring baths, etc., can also serve as auxiliary treatments.
C. Lowering the scrotum and testicles method: During sexual intercourse, when the male feels the urge to ejaculate, the scrotum contracts and the testicles rise. At this point, the female can be instructed to gently pull down the male's scrotum and testicles, thereby reducing the male's sexual excitement and delaying the time of ejaculation, achieving the effect of preventing and treating premature ejaculation.
D. Condom intercourse method: Males wearing condoms during sexual intercourse can reduce penile friction, thus lowering the sensitivity of male sexual excitement, prolonging the duration of sexual intercourse, and avoiding premature ejaculation.
F. Squeezing method: This is the best non-drug treatment for premature ejaculation. It can increase the threshold for male ejaculation stimulation, relieve the urgency of ejaculation, enhance sexual excitement, improve the state of ejaculation reflex, and rebuild or restore normal ejaculation time. Both parties can perform the squeezing method, but it is more effective when performed by the female than when performed solely by the male.
(3) Change the sexual intercourse movements from slow to fast, reducing large-scale movements to delay ejaculation.