The Girl Refuses to Eat or Drink
Peninsula.com, September 28 - A heartbroken girl was spotted near Biaoshan Road. She had been squatting there for a day and night without eating or drinking, and was heard saying, "If my boyfriend doesn't come to see me, I will die." On the 28th, Ms. Jiang, a citizen, reported this to our website. At 2:30 PM, under the persuasion of kind-hearted citizens, the girl ate a bowl of dumplings but still insisted on finding her "unfaithful boyfriend." In response, psychological expert Teacher Li Yuhuan suggested, "Currently, it would be best if the ex-boyfriend could step forward to apologize so that the girl can overcome her psychological difficulties as soon as possible."
Jiangxi Girl Comes to Qingdao to Find Her Unfaithful Boyfriend
At around 1:30 PM on the 28th, at No. 36 Biaoshan Road, the reporter met the girl mentioned by Ms. Jiang. She was wearing a gray overcoat and carrying a white bag. Due to not having eaten or drunk anything for a long time, the girl's complexion appeared slightly pale as she sat on the ground. However, she was still able to clearly respond to inquiries from people around her. The reporter noticed that on the ground were unopened items kindly provided by citizens: a box of dumplings, cola, and coffee.
Around ten kind-hearted citizens tried to persuade her one by one, but the girl still insisted on waiting and repeatedly said, "I will keep waiting for my boyfriend. If he doesn't come to see me, I will die."
Loss of the Child, Loss of All Happiness
"The boyfriend has always been good to me. We met in high school; he was one year ahead of me. Later, we successfully entered the same university. For him, I made many plans, but everything changed after that woman appeared. He started lying to me, even hitting me," the girl introduced herself as surnamed Xu, 22 years old, a graduate of East China University of Technology in Jiangxi. After hearing the reporter's inquiry, she slowly said, "After graduation, he came to work at a securities company in Qingdao. During the May Day holiday this year, which also happened to be his birthday, I specially came from Jiangxi to see him. He promised to choose me, to completely cut off contact with that woman, and asked for a month's time to transfer the securities business to his relatives in Qingdao before returning to Jiangxi to find me. I loved him, trusted him, but didn't expect all these to be excuses for him to deceive me back home. Since then, he hasn't initiated contact with me anymore."
"We had a child, but because of that woman, he ignored me, and the child... died... all happiness is gone." The girl recounted brokenly, "I stayed at home for two months, refusing to eat whenever possible, and my parents have given up on me..."
Ex-Boyfriend Resigns, Avoids Contact
According to Mr. Li, a colleague of the girl's ex-boyfriend, the girl had previously come to Qingdao three times to look for her boyfriend, each time waiting for several days. Last time, she caused a disturbance at our securities company's training center, making the man feel very embarrassed, so he resigned. Later, he changed his phone number, and it became impossible to contact him. Subsequently, the reporter called the contact information provided by Mr. Li, but the phone remained unanswered.
The girl told the reporter, "Yesterday, the boy contacted me. He knew I came to Qingdao to find him and asked me to wait for two more days." Despite the advice of kind-hearted people around her, the girl continued to insist on waiting. By the time the reporter left, the "ex-boyfriend" mentioned by the girl had not appeared.
At about 2:30 PM, under the persuasion of kind-hearted people, the girl finally ate a bowl of dumplings, leading everyone to believe she might have softened. However, after finishing the dumplings, the girl returned to her original spot to wait, muttering, "I want to find my boyfriend and ask why."
Psychological Expert: Boyfriend Should Appear and Express Apology
Consulting psychological expert Teacher Li Yuhuan about this matter, Teacher Li analyzed, "People who experience a breakup often care most about the feeling of continuous failure, thinking others don't like them or accept them. Suddenly losing something they value makes them feel extremely painful. Therefore, they often express anger in their own way while hoping the other party will change their mind."
"Ordinarily, it takes only two months for a person to get over the pain of a breakup. However, this girl's situation indicates a psychological disorder. It might be necessary for the ex-boyfriend to appear and express some apology to make the girl feel better, or for her family to take her away so professional doctors can help her overcome this psychological difficulty." Teacher Li offered two suggestions.
Written by Sun Tiejing