1. Remember what should be remembered, forget what should be forgotten. Change what can be changed, accept what cannot be changed.
2. The only things that can wash everything away are tears and time. Time pushes feelings forward; the longer the time, the more diluted the conflicts become, just like tea being constantly watered down.
3. Complaints are humanity's greatest offering to heaven, and also the most sincere part of human prayers.
4. The cost of wisdom is contradiction. This is life’s joke on one’s worldview.
5. Girls in the world always think they are proud princesses.
6. If an enemy makes you angry, it means you don't have the confidence to surpass him yet.
7. If a friend makes you angry, it shows you still value his friendship.
8. Linghu Chong said: "There are some things we cannot control ourselves, so we can only control ourselves."
9. I do not know which of my current actions are right and which are wrong. Only when I am old and dying will I know these things. So all I can do now is try my best to do every single thing well and then wait for death.
10. Some people may be very nasty, some may be very despicable. But when I put myself in their shoes, I realize: he is even more pitiful than me. So please forgive all the people you have met, whether they are good or bad.
11. The fish said to the water: "You cannot see my tears because I am in the water." The water replied: "I can feel your tears because you are in my heart."
12. Happiness must be accompanied by sadness, and after the rain there should be clear skies. If it rains after the rain, and if sorrow follows sorrow, let us calmly face this parting after parting. Smile and go in search of an impossible you.
13. Death teaches one everything, just like the results published after an exam - though suddenly enlightened, it is already too late.
14. When you were born, you cried while those around you laughed; when you pass away, you smile while those around you cry. Everything is a cycle, and we are all in the cycle.
15. Before marriage, men think there are few women suitable for them; after marriage, they think there are many women suitable for them.
16. Among millions of people, you meet the person you are destined to meet; among millions of years, in the vast wilderness of time, neither too early nor too late, you just happen to meet.
17. Everyone has potential energy, but it is easily covered up by habit, lost in time, and worn away by laziness.
18. Life is only a few decades long. Do not leave any regrets for yourself. Laugh when you want to laugh, cry when you want to cry, love when it is time to love, and do not suppress yourself.
19. A line from *Peaceful Times*: When fantasy confronts reality, it is always painful. Either you are defeated by the pain, or you trample the pain underfoot.
20. True love does not seek excitement, grandeur, or extravagance, and certainly not gimmicks.
21. In life, people come and go continuously. Thus, those seen become unseen; those remembered become forgotten. In life, gains and losses continue. Thus, the unseen becomes seen again, and the forgotten becomes remembered once more. However, does the unseen equate to non-existence? Does the remembered never fade?
22. We indeed live a hard life, having to bear various external pressures, and even more so, face inner confusion. In this arduous struggle, if someone casts an understanding glance at you, you will feel a warmth in life. Even if it is just a brief look, it is enough to make me feel elated.
23. I do not care whether I can succeed. Since I have chosen the distance, I will press on through wind and rain; I do not care whether cold winds and rains will strike from behind. Since my goal is the horizon, all I can leave the world is my back.
24. Regret is an emotion that consumes energy. Regret is a greater loss than loss itself, and a bigger mistake than error itself. Therefore, do not regret.
25. The sun rises in the east and sets in the west, whether you are worried or happy, it is still a day. When encountering problems, do not get stuck in dead ends. Be comfortable, be at ease.