8 Situations When a Man Must Start Spoiling His Woman
Sweet opportunities are very important ...
1. If your girlfriend cries in front of you, no matter what the reason is, please hold her tightly, even if she resists, you must still hold her. Lying on the table will never be as comforting as being in your arms.
2. If your girlfriend points out your mistakes, don't always complain about her nagging. If she didn't care, she wouldn't say anything to you.
3. If your girlfriend is angry with you and ignores you, don't imitate her. This is exactly the time to test your relationship. If you don't show your thick-skinned spirit at this time, when will you?
4. If your girlfriend doesn't listen to you and walks away, make sure you catch up with her. If you still love her, how can you let her go alone and feel relieved?
5. If your girlfriend says "you go", "I don't want to talk to you", don't believe it. Women often say one thing but mean another. In fact, that's when she needs you the most.
6. If your girlfriend is upset and says she doesn't feel like eating, don't ask her what she wants or what she feels like eating. She will definitely say she doesn't want anything. Buy her favorite food from your memory (preferably packaged, so she can eat it later when she's in a better mood), but never threaten her by saying you won't eat either.
7. If your girlfriend is in her special time of the month, remember not to ask her if she wants cold drinks. Always keep your hand on her stomach, even in summer, she needs that kind of care.
8. If your girlfriend says something harsh to you, remain silent for three seconds, then put your arm around her shoulder, smile, and say: "Honey, your voice sounds so bad!"
Do you love me? This seems to be a question that many women like to ask men, and silence or changing the subject also appears to be the way most men respond. Women need sweet whispers, but men either don't understand or are reluctant to express them. Such conflicts have persisted for thousands of years in China, thus accompanying misunderstandings and frictions between the sexes.
Do women really need flowery words? Even if it's just for the sake of it? What should men do to satisfy women? Do they have to become more affectionate?
Sweetness Needs to Be Expressed ...
Women Need Sweet Words
My ears have been lonely for a long time because my husband hasn't said any romantic words to me for too long, nor has he praised me for dressing well like before. My life lacks sweet words. Our marriage also lacks passion, seemingly entering the "seven-year itch" prematurely.
Who doesn't know how to speak sweet words? In our youth, when we first fell deeply in love, sweet words flowed like an endless river. There was no need to prepare, no need to practice, it seemed like an innate talent. Back then, the two of us wanted to stick together every moment. Even a short separation filled our hearts with longing. My husband often called me right before sleeping, chatting for an hour or two. Endless tenderness and deep affection, as if trying to finish all the words for a lifetime.
Love is like a marathon. At the beginning, everyone is full of confidence and determination. But later?
Later, some people get lost, some give up, and others barely hang on, not knowing when they'll give up. I think those who can last until the end are the ones who continue to speak sweet words to their partners throughout their lives.
I am very envious of the director's wife at my workplace. Because when the director receives a call from his wife in the office, he always speaks tenderly, asking things like "do you miss me?" Finally, mindful of my presence, he takes the call outside and returns half an hour later. A nearly 40-year-old man speaking sweet words better than a 20-something young man. I heard it, shivered, and stuck out my tongue, thinking how embarrassing. But from another perspective, if my lover could still speak such sweet words to me after 10 years of marriage, I would feel incredibly happy.
My husband and I have been married for less than three years, yet he is already unwilling to say sweet words on the phone, and rarely calls. When I call his office, he speaks concisely, as if giving instructions to a subordinate. I really suspect whether he will stop speaking sweet words altogether and just focus on daily chores like firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, and tea. A life without sweet words is like flowers lacking irrigation. Over time, our love and our souls will gradually wither.
I think my ears have been lonely for too long and need the comfort of sweet words. So dear, please be romantic once in a while, whisper sweet words into my ear like when we first started dating, and praise me often. That way, I will grow brighter and livelier like flowers seeing the sun, and our marriage will be healthier.
Cherish your girlfriends. Don't think badly or overly complicated about them. Women always want the simplest things!
Be a Big Man Who Dares to Flatter ...
Unveiling Men's Sweet Talk
If you're cold, I'll embrace you; if you're sad, I'll wipe away your tears; if you love me, I'll broadcast it to the world... I just want to give you my real love.
Baby, I can't help but think of you, I can't forget you, my heart can't live without you, so I will continue to bother you.
How many times have you appeared in my dreams? How many times have I silently called for you? I just want to hold your hand and stroll through life! Let's get married!
Your gentleness and consideration, your straightforwardness, your adorable smile, your enchanting eyes, every move you make makes me obsessed...
Not loving you is truly excessive, not loving you is too unfair to myself, not loving you and my friends will beat me, my goal is only to love you.
A chance encounter made me notice you, a few meetings made me care for you, repeated dates made me desire you, I can't stop thinking about you, nine out of ten times I probably like you, and I'm certain I love you.
Today it rained, yesterday it rained, the day before it rained too, heavy rain, moderate rain, light rain, drizzle... Today I thought of you, yesterday I thought of you, the day before I thought of you too, point by point I thought of you, thread by thread I thought of you, piece by piece I thought of you...
I wish all the girls in the world turned into you, so wanting you wouldn't require searching everywhere; but I fear all the girls in the world turning into you, because then I wouldn't be able to relax anywhere!
Are you sleeping well tonight? I really want to call you and chat all night, but I'm afraid you won't rest well, sleep early, my love, have a good dream.
Others say "like you" easily, but I just can't bring myself to say it…
I don't know why, but as long as you're by my side, my heart stops being restless.
Give me a reason to stop loving you. But you seem to have none, and I seem unable to stop loving you!
The words of love I have for you are endless; the words of hate I have for you cannot be spoken; the thoughts of you are like a surging river; possessing you is like waves crashing against the shore.
A lover's smile makes a day wonderful; a lover's sorrow makes work lose its charm; a lover's praise makes the heart bloom with joy.
Loving you is the theme of my life, wind, frost, rain, and snow are the melodies of loving you, each day repeats this song, hoping to accompany you through every day!