Attracting people's affection is what a small number of people want to achieve in the process of interpersonal interaction. The disadvantage is quite obvious: when you need help, you will receive fewer helping hands. People will bring you information about new opportunities that you never knew existed. In return, they will genuinely care for and protect you.
However, how can we make others like us? How can we make ourselves more attractive? In fact, there is only one simple rule: love others after they love you. When people realize that you care about them, naturally, they will also care about you.
Regarding this point, I believe there is only one message that needs to be conveyed in interpersonal interactions. Conveying this message is the key to strengthening friendships. That is:
You are important to me.
Yes, it’s just that. Nothing else. Not "your money," not "your knowledge," but simply "you" - as a person - are important to me. Whatever you do in social interactions should revolve around this. Therefore, the more you convey this message, the more people will like you.
Here, I would like to share 33 suggestions on how to convey this message in social interactions. Of course, these are also tips to make you more attractive. As follows:
When you meet someone, greet them with a bright smile. Let them feel that you are happy and glad to be with them.
Focus all your attention on the person talking to you, ignoring everything else.
When someone is speaking to you, stop whatever you're doing.
When someone visits, warmly welcome them as if you've been expecting them.
Don’t keep others waiting.
Keep a list of acquaintances, preferably printed out, and check it when you have time. It will remind you who you haven't contacted recently.
Never forget to reply to emails or messages.
Respond to others' emails and messages as soon as you have the opportunity.
Shake hands warmly.
Sincerely compliment others when they do something well. Let them know you appreciate it.
Remember to visit others.
Send cards or messages to wish them a happy birthday. Of course, a phone call is even better.
If you haven't replied to a letter for a long time, send an email or message promptly to maintain contact.
Forget others' faults and issues.
Do not forget things that are important to others, especially those they care most about (you may also write them down).
If someone asks for help and you don't have time, recommend a friend who might be able to assist.
Take the initiative to help others in trouble (rather than wait for them to ask).
Be the first to offer solutions to problems.
Express gratitude sincerely to others.
Mention their names in your prayers.
When conversing, talk about their lives.
Ask specific questions about things they care about. They will feel your consideration.
Share with others things that are precious to you. Time is the best candidate.
Eat together. Of course, the best is to cook for them yourself.
When with others, avoid constantly checking your watch. It gives the impression that you have something more important to do.
When talking to someone, don't look over their shoulder. This makes you appear eager to end the conversation.
Recommend good books or articles to others.
In text messages, occasionally include some encouraging words or quotes.
If you have any, lend your favorite books or movies to others.
When conversing, often speak well of your friends. This way, in their minds, they will think you speak well of them too.
Do not speak ill of your friends behind their backs. This way, in their minds, when you speak of them, they will think positively.
Occasionally mention the other party's name during conversations.
Frequently give others creative surprises.
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