There's no special reason, nor is there any shadow of male sexual repression from http://www.jiaohuanwanqi.com, but there's just no interest in virgins. Behind the growing trend of the "virgin complex," women have strongly criticized this mindset, asking, "If you love her, do you care about that membrane?" Ironically, many girls, in response to the call for gender equality, have started what's called a "male virgin complex" or "chastity complex." Oh Lord, how is this any different from those ignorant men? If you love him, do you care if he's a virgin?
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Reasons for not liking virgins:
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Sex should be an enjoyment. But with a male virgin, they are often so nervous and awkward, it’s disappointing. I hate having sex with virgins. They are clumsy and lack romance!
First: We often hear girls say, "It's dirty if a man isn't a virgin..." People ask, what is "dirty" and what is "clean"? Is having sex with other women considered unclean?? Such immature thinking!
Choosing a virgin man over a non-virgin woman is worse than killing her off. Where is the happiness in that? The first time ends up being so embarrassing and uncomfortable, facing someone who doesn't understand consideration, gentleness, or even basic anatomy. And if this so-called virgin hasn't even experienced the so-called "first time," they might be daydreaming every day about how their "first time" will be perfect. As a result, upon seeing a female body for the first time, they get overly excited, rush into things... leading to unimaginable results... which may cause fear of sex in virgins, intense pain, and possibly even sexual aversion.
Why bother? For the sake of so-called cleanliness, putting oneself through such embarrassment. It would be better to have an inexperienced boyfriend help you open the door to sexual pleasure. A skilled person understands your anatomy, can alleviate your tension and discomfort, and will gently comfort you, leaving a relatively pleasant first memory...
Second, a woman should especially avoid a so-called male virgin. Think about it, during sex, two people need good coordination. Facing a virgin man, he's both nervous and trying to perform perfectly, ending up perhaps needing to turn on the light to find the right spot, or maybe you'd have to help him, leading to mutual awkwardness. Where's the passion then... Moreover, male virgins tend to not last long, finishing quickly. Seeing his satisfied expression, what can you say... There's nothing much to talk about...
Third, male virgins often care most about whether their girlfriend or partner is still a virgin!! Upon discovering she isn't, they become extremely angry because they feel it's unequal. They feel that since their partner has had experience, she will compare them with other men, while they themselves have no experience and lack confidence. In such situations, some men feel humiliated by their own inferiority, even under the guise of feminism now playing out their own enhanced version of the "virgin complex"!!
Fourth, if a man I love is still a virgin, I would seriously reconsider my judgment of him! Imagine a girlfriend who is much younger, already 30 years old, if she were still a virgin, I would start doubting her honesty and reconsidering public opinions. You see, if a young man is still a virgin, I would think he lacks competence. At this age, he should have had several girlfriends by now, yet none have been intimate with him. Either he's sick or simply unable to attract women!!! I don’t believe in the "chastity" argument; the ultimate goal for a normal man in love is marriage. For a guy who can't even manage to date, why would I love him... That's just self-inflicted humiliation!! Unless he's just particularly indecisive...
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