1. Never let a man who makes you sad revolve around you, no matter how much you love him to the point of being ready to die for him. You still need to give him space; otherwise, be careful not to strangle him with too much attention.
2. Believe in yourself, take good care of yourself, and make your life colorful. It's not about making someone regret, but about making your life more wonderful.
3. Every day, go out dressed elegantly and calmly, and bring along a different smile.
4. Respond to men who genuinely appreciate you with a deep smile.
5. If you can avoid smoking, don't smoke. If you can avoid drinking, don't drink.
6. Even when troubled, do not go to a bar. A lonely man holding a wine glass or smoking will feel even lonelier and sadder.
7. Do not envy vanity. Vanity is a poison and can become addictive.
8. Take off your shoes, but do not wear them too high.
9. Have a few close friends so that when you are alone, there will still be close friends to serve you tea and water. Don’t scream why the person who says they love you cannot accompany you.
10. Use one eye to choose your future partner. If you choose correctly, immediately merge. Do not hesitate overnight as it will harm both of you.
11. Do not wrestle with men. First, you won't win against him; second, any man who wrestles with you must be crazy. So, it’s better not to fight.
12. Go on trips. Traveling enriches the mind.
13. Buy clothes and accessories that suit you. What suits you is the best, so do not envy others' styles.
14. Prefer quality over quantity. Do not randomly pick up a man because of loneliness, which would be unfair to both you and him, and lacks responsibility.
15. Treat your job seriously. Work may not excite you like love, but at least it ensures you have food to eat and a house to live in, while uncertain love does not provide these things.
16. Learn to apply delicate makeup and know what to wear for different occasions.
17. Do not fall in love with an unmarried man who swears he will leave his family to marry you. If they really have no feelings left, they would naturally divorce, instead of saying meaningless things to you every day.
18. You can love a man, but do not reveal all of yourself. No man deserves you to beg for their love. If you do not love yourself, how can you expect others to love you?
19. Occasionally cook well for him or your friends. But do not do it every day; you were not born to be in the kitchen every day for someone.
20. Experience wild adventures only once, such as traveling far distances to visit someone.
21. When lonely, chat with good friends, go shopping, or have meals together. Do not let loneliness consume you.
22. If you send a message to someone you like and they do not reply, stop sending messages.
23. Before going out, remember to check your appearance in the mirror to ensure your outfit is harmonious. If time is tight, suggest picking your next day's outfit after sleeping.
24. If you accidentally get drunk, do not call anyone, including close friends and him.
25. Return home early at night. If you do not have a car, take a taxi after 10 pm, or ask someone to pick you up.
26. Do not ask him if he misses you or loves you. If he does miss you or love you, he will naturally tell you, but if you ask first, he might feel proud and indifferent towards you.
27. Do not spend 24 hours thinking about one person. Share some thoughts with family and friends.
28. Have a fixed hangout place, such as a regular coffee shop or bookstore. Let the staff there recognize you, so you have a warm place to go when lonely.
29. If you decide to leave someone, act quickly and decisively. If you decide to fall in love with someone, take your time to see if they are suitable for you.
30. Find someone to give you color coordination advice. Do not always look dull; brighten yourself up. Do not waste your youth and beauty.
31. Do not torture yourself for anyone or anything. For example, skipping meals, crying, isolating yourself, or feeling depressed are all foolish actions. Of course, occasionally acting silly is necessary, as life doesn't need to be wise all the time.
32. If a man tells you he likes you, believe him. If he says he no longer loves you, also believe him. At any time, remind yourself that the departure of someone who does not love you is a blessing.
33. Buy comfortable pajamas for yourself, and it's fine if they are a bit sexy.
34. Allow yourself to occasionally watch cheesy dramas, but do not make it a habit. Allow yourself to occasionally look unkempt, but pay attention to the occasion. Allow yourself to occasionally curse, but only in front of close friends or alone. Remember to forget the satisfaction of cursing afterward.
35. Take care of your hands; they are your second face. However, this does not mean you should avoid doing any housework.
36. Wear clothes with quality and find a boyfriend with quality. He does not have to be very wealthy, but he should make you feel safe and happy.
37. When you have free time, light your favorite incense and let its fragrance fill the room for joy.
38. If possible, always grow long hair. Although short hair is easier to manage, long hair adds more femininity.
39. If a man says something embarrassing to you, forgive him. A forgiven man will eventually regret losing a forgiving woman like you.
40. Have at least one goal that you want to achieve within two years. A purposeful life is less boring.
41. If a man uses his busyness as an excuse, does not inquire about your illness, does not reply to your emails, does not care about your condition, and cannot share the burden of life with you, nor give you courage, be brave and leave actively. Nothing is more real than caring for yourself. A person who does not love you, no matter how much you give, no matter how good they are, is just a waste of time and energy.
42. If a man who once liked you but is now divorced tells you: he cannot forget you, and you have always been his beloved, calmly tell him: live like a man. By doing this, you not only maintain calmness but also respect and cherish another woman. This will make you more charming.
43. Do not eat indiscriminately in public places; maintain ladylike behavior (especially avoid unrefined behaviors like eating grilled food).
44. Being innocent and pure is good, but being naive without considering the situation becomes foolish behavior.
45. You must have a few male friends, not for romantic reasons, but someone you can vent your frustrations to when wronged. They can help you chase girlfriends and drag you out of bed on ordinary days to pick you up nearby. Of course, finally, you need to get their girlfriends or wives to recognize you. Otherwise, do not try.
46. Do not wait for a man to buy you gifts. When you want to treat yourself well, buy them yourself. It feels more comforting to use them.
47. Before a man closes the door on you, do not attempt to seek revenge by clinging desperately. That will only make your life chaotic. The correct approach is to live better than before and tell him: you are living well, happily, and he does not need to worry.
48. Learn to accept pain. Some words are better left unsaid, some sorrows are better forgotten openly. After experiencing, you grow, and you understand it yourself. Few changes occur without needing you to say it; others will notice.