My boyfriend keeps a swimsuit of his female colleague in his wardrobe. I asked him to throw it away, but he didn't listen and said it was too wasteful. What should I do? I found a pink swimsuit in my boyfriend's wardrobe, placed together with his socks. We are planning to get married by the end of next year. When I saw the swimsuit, I told him to clear out some clothes that belong to others, not me. He agreed, but when he started cleaning, he threw away some old socks and picked up that swimsuit again.
I asked him if the swimsuit was for him to wear or for his girlfriend. He said it belonged to a former colleague of his, someone I also know. He thought it was a pity to throw away such a good swimsuit, and maybe it could be used if someone forgot to bring one when we go swimming. After hearing this, I didn't say anything more, and neither did he.
I don't know how I should feel about this situation. Although this swimsuit has been in his wardrobe for a long time, his colleague has already left the company, and they rarely contact each other recently. Moreover, we have been dating for over a year, and our relationship can be considered good. We see each other every day, often holding hands when we go out. But regarding the swimsuit issue I raised, he seems indifferent, thinking there's no need to throw it away as it would be a waste. Is this really what he thinks? Or is he still pining for his former colleague, so he doesn't want to throw her things away? Am I being overly suspicious, or is there something else going on? I know my boyfriend once pursued that female colleague.
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I think it's nothing much. If it's kept with socks, how important could it be? Just throw the swimsuit away and be done with it! You might as well try hiding another man's underwear... I'm curious, where did the swimsuit come from?
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