Do women need a set of unwritten rules for having an affair?

Deep in women's consciousness, more or less there will be some unrealistic sexual fantasies. In general, men and women will not easily take risks, but when external and internal conditions permit, the probability of this happening will increase significantly.

1. Encounter with an old lover

It's better to laugh than to cry, and it's better to have old than new. When a married woman suddenly encounters an old lover whom she once deeply loved but eventually broke up with in an unexpected place, it is just like a revolutionary suffering from enemy's severe torture. Whether to be Fu Zhigao (a betrayer) or Sister Jiang (a heroine who endured torture without giving away her comrades), all depends on one's own determination. Here, the "new" refers to the current state of marriage. Reality reveals its flaws precisely because of its authenticity, leading to dissatisfaction, nostalgia, and even fantasies about how perfect that unfinished emotional journey could have been, if only unfolded more deeply - such a psychological state undoubtedly provides the best soil for the bloom of a romantic encounter. The old lover comes, and so does the conflict.