1. The first time to get over the hurt of love - hurting is a necessary path for emotional independence.
2. The first time buying a bra by oneself - the pass for women to find their place in the relationship between sexes.
3. The first time taking contraceptive pills - the umbrella that protects the maturity and independence of women in love.
4. The first time traveling alone - a key for women to seek independent existence value in the world.
5. The first time cooking for parents - the moment one becomes independent in the eyes of one's parents.
6. The first time living independently - trivial life is the touchstone to test whether one is independent or not.
7. The first time... (the link provided seems to be an external blog post which cannot be directly translated without access to its content)