When you are courting a customer for a big order, fawning over powerful people for a promotion opportunity, or trying hard to get along with your boss for some extra attention, you are on the verge of being harassed. In their logic, "since you need my help, it's your duty to make me happy", "even if you don't want to, you won't resist, and you will not dare to publicize it". These shameless harassers might even think "if you dare to expose me, I can accuse you of seducing me for personal gain". Moreover, in their vulgar minds, they may even think that you have tacitly agreed to their next move.-- Even some seemingly kind "grandpas" may have improper thoughts of taking advantage of you.