Today, when SWJ was reading articles online and came across this one, my first reaction was "My goodness, another clickbait title!" But it still attracted me, as a man. I read the article and found it quite thought-provoking. SWJ will talk about it a bit at the end of this post. If you're interested, you can check out the original article:
The relationship between men and women is indeed a very subtle thing. Performance in the dating scene not only tests a person's emotional intelligence but also their intellectual intelligence. In other words, if a man does not understand the psychological characteristics of the person he is pursuing, even if he overflows with emotional intelligence and charm, he may not necessarily win his desired partner. Or even if he has already set his sights on someone, she may not necessarily belong to him in the end.
Details determine success or failure. Modern society is a high-paced one, and romantic relationships are speeding up and becoming more efficient. Many people simply don't have time for romance. However, from dating to marriage, it is a life trajectory that many must go through. How can you effectively capture your other half in the shortest possible time? As long as you pay attention to certain details in the dating scene and firmly grasp them, then you are halfway to success.
1. She gives you a lingering look. When you are in the same occasion but do not know each other, if you accidentally notice her looking at you intently, you should not avoid her gaze because you are unprepared, otherwise, you would be making a big mistake, unless you already have someone in mind. Generally speaking, you should confidently approach her, find a topic to start a conversation. Perhaps your beautiful life together begins right there, because such a woman is attracted by a certain kind of aura you possess. This is very important. It has no material component, but it is absolutely a trait that will attract your lover for life.
2. Deliberately raise her voice pitch. This is a rather cute, little-woman behavior, a bit playful, but definitely an admirer of yours. Maybe she is not particularly outstanding in a crowd and doesn't immediately catch your attention. So she uses this small trick, aiming to get your attention. Prior to this, she has gone through a careful evaluation, quickly reviewing all the men stored in her memory, and finally concludes that you are the man she desires. And once you also think she is your destined one, then that's really true. What could be more enviable than a pair of mutually infatuated lovers coming together?
3. Accidentally brushing against you when meeting. Sometimes using her chest. Don't assume such a woman is not proper (certain special-occasion women excluded). Actually, when you haven't noticed her yet, she has already been considering you. For this reason, she decides to make some sacrifices for you. Although a woman's chest is meant for her future man, isn't there a saying: "A woman's chest is for her man." Normally, when interacting with women, you shouldn't touch a woman's chest under any circumstances. You can imagine that when she decides to brush against you with her chest, she must have gone through intense inner conflict. In the end, she makes this bold move, hoping that this brush will spark the most brilliant flame in her emotional life. Therefore, you must not disappoint her. She is a woman with a strong sense of belonging, the type who beautifies herself for the one who appreciates her. You will find great joy and harmony with her.
SWJ feels that indeed, the feelings between men and women are truly inexplicable. The she (or he) who was your friend today might be with you tomorrow because you both feel something for each other. Or the she you never noticed before becomes your girlfriend one day. SWJ deeply understands this, which is why I am saying this, although we have been separated for two years now... The three points mentioned in the article, SWJ himself has not exaggerated anything, they have all happened to me. Unfortunately, possibly due to personal character reasons, none of those factors led to us being together... So borrowing a phrase from a certain SEO expert: "When you intentionally plant flowers, they may not bloom; but when you unintentionally stick a willow branch in the ground, it grows into a tree!" "The highest level of SEO is no SEO." Everyone can deeply reflect on the meaning behind these words!
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