A Sagittarius Woman Have you fallen in love with a Sagittarius? Be prepared mentally. I assure you that Sagittarius is not the hardest zodiac sign to pursue, but it is the most special. ==================================================== Sagittarius Keyword - Freedom I know you know this. But what I want to say is that you may not really be able to always keep this in mind. The requirement for freedom from Sagittarius manifests in all aspects. If you trample on it, destruction is inevitable. This is something you need to always remember. Pursuit Strategy Make sure you are interesting enough. Believe me, this is more crucial than being handsome. Like women of other zodiac signs, Sagittarians often talk about pursuing handsome men, but in reality, if you're not interesting enough, you will still be rejected. This point might even escape the notice of Sagittarians themselves. Sagittarians will fear as the relationship gets closer, fearing the reality of falling in love. They usually start to reject, which has a lot to do with their age. The younger the Sagittarian, the more obvious this behavior is. She might tell you, "I don't want to fall in love," or "Why are you following me?" These words can instantly hurt you. But don't be afraid; it's because of her fear. In fact, after a long time, you will understand that she fears being deeply hurt after committing herself. Facing this situation, you might feel at a loss. My suggestion is that you temporarily step away, but not too far, and definitely don't look for a backup plan. Such strategies will directly eliminate you in the pursuit of a Sagittarian. Don't try to use neglecting her to stimulate your pursuit; it absolutely doesn't work on Sagittarians. If you're not fatally attractive to her, ignoring her won't have any effect; she'll forget you faster until you surrender. Therefore, maintaining an appropriate distance is important. If she's scared, step back for now. Don't rush to confess your feelings; let her experience more happiness with you rather than pressure from you. Don't overthink creating romantic moments; Sagittarians aren't impressed by this. Their love must begin with friendship. Trying to impress her through temporary romance or moving stories will almost never succeed. You'd better focus more on how to be friends with her. Sagittarians are enthusiastic, but not always so. The closer you get to her heart, the more chances you have to feel her coldness. This kind of coldness is her true inner self. You must adapt to this coldness; it doesn't mean she's cold towards you. It's just Sagittarians' protective stance towards the world. They easily trust others, so they have more friends compared to other zodiacs. If your Sagittarian is also pretty, she will have more male friends, including admirers. But don't worry; Sagittarians won't easily agree to anyone's advances. You don't need to be nervous about this. It's unclear where the rumor of Sagittarians being flirtatious comes from, but I tell you it's wrong. People who make such conclusions haven't understood the heart of a Sagittarian. Sagittarians are more interested in socializing and passionate about friendships. This might give people the wrong impression. However, when it comes to love, Sagittarians are pessimistic. They don't believe much in real-world love, so they tend to keep a rational distance from everyone. Therefore, they might encounter many reckless pursuits and confessions, but these rarely succeed. Because these reckless pursuers fail to see the rational distance created by Sagittarians and mistakenly take the passion of Sagittarian women as signals of affection. So, don't be reckless. If you want to be with a Sagittarian woman for a long time, ensure that you are her most important friend and put confession as the last moment. Some people mistakenly think that Sagittarians are naive and easy to deceive. In fact, Sagittarians are very straightforward in speech and act like men, indeed lacking delicacy. But that doesn't mean they are dumb. In fact, Sagittarians disguise this very well. They observe, sometimes speak out, but most of the time they don't care. See clearly, it's not that they don't care, it's that they know. So, those tricks you play have probably been seen by her. She didn't say anything, possibly for two reasons: either she wants to give you another chance, or she simply doesn't care about you. So don't be clever on your own. Don't ramble. Sagittarians are very straightforward in speech, so they dislike verbosity, even if you make sense. Try talking endlessly to her and repeatedly explaining your great theory. I guarantee that the Sagittarian sister will explode with anger and disappear immediately. Remember, the ability of Sagittarian women to disappear can scare you. She will really disappear. You might think, won't Sagittarians get lonely? Yes, they will. But they dissipate loneliness through playing with friends, crazy shopping, and traveling. They will never solve loneliness through one person alone. This is something you won't understand unless you carefully experience it. However, don't lose hope. As long as you can maintain enthusiasm and optimism most of the time, keep an appropriate distance, give her trust and freedom, you have a chance to win her heart. When the right time comes, you will easily discover from her attitude. Sagittarians are not good liars. When you find her becoming increasingly dependent on you, starting to criticize you, or even deliberately saying things to upset you, okay, she might already love you. Only at this moment do you realize that previous worries were unnecessary. You will know that if Sagittarians like you, it can certainly be observed. And after that, there are still many things you need to do. Believe me, getting along with Sagittarians is the real trouble. Because deep down psychologically, Sagittarians cannot distinguish between the boundaries of love and friendship. In her heart, accepting your pursuit is more like encouraging and affirming her closest male friend. So, don't think that once you've pursued her successfully, you can do whatever you want. She might send you back to the cold stage at any time, and before you react, she tells you, "Let's break up." Okay, I'm as unwilling as you to see that situation. So, please remain consistent. Don't think that since you've already gotten her, you can casually infringe on her freedom and personal space. Yes, I know, I know that this makes many people unable to adapt. But, do you love her? So, think more about the benefits, think that she won't neurotically check your phone, won't cry asking if you love her, and won't ambiguously flirt with others the moment you turn around. Which is better? Who knows? Also, admit that being with Sagittarians is often not romantic. She won't act like a helpless bird, she will still be independent, still love freedom, and still run around everywhere. All this, please consider normal, please cherish carefully. You can take care of her safety when she runs around, help her check flights and itineraries when she wants to travel alone, instead of asking why she goes alone and why she can't stay in touch midway. If these still can't make you understand how to win a Sagittarian girl's heart, then I can only say, maybe Sagittarians are not suitable for you. In fact, I think there are always some people in this world who are not suitable for us. This may be one of the causes of tragedy. If you read this article and complain more than agree, and are surprised more than delighted, then let go. Why torment yourself? Love is our own business. Chapter on Sagittarius Men Sagittarius men are my good buddies, I know many Sagittarius men. I can always become the best brothers with them. But even so, I deeply feel that Sagittarius men are naturally prone to breaking women's hearts. Although I am a Gemini, equally unpopular among girls. Sagittarius men and Sagittarius women are different creatures. At least Sagittarius women still retain a certain yearning for love, while Sagittarius men completely disrupt the model of love with a different way of thinking. In fact, this is the hardest article for me to write, as I don't dare to claim that I fully understand the psychological love of Sagittarius men.==================================================== Key Words for Sagittarius Men - Dreams, Freedom Actually, unlike Sagittarius women, Sagittarius men emphasize freedom much less strongly. And this is exactly the problem. The freedom that Sagittarius women need mostly comes from the autonomy of their inner spirit. They can somewhat relax the constraints of real life. Sagittarius men, however, are entirely different. They are filled with fear at the infringement of their personal living space. You love him, but you can't get close to him randomly. Honestly, you're making it hard for your lover. But what can anyone do? Of course, Sagittarius men may not necessarily be fully aware of this. Their fear of love is described by themselves as many unsatisfactory excuses, but in fact, it almost all stems from the discomfort of someone entering their lives. Another characteristic of Sagittarius men is their dedication to dreams. Yes, Sagittarius men are absolutely reliable at work. This is much stronger than Geminis. Although Sagittarius is often described by many people as careless and unstable, the attention that Sagittarius pays to the careers they love is unmatched by other zodiacs. For example, a senior student in my research lab, a typical Sagittarius man, spends no less than 12 hours a day in the lab. Apart from work and experiments, he rarely cares about other things. This passion scares me. But the premise is that it's a dream he loves and is willing to pursue. Otherwise, he is still unreliable. However, this also means that if you fall in love with a Sagittarius man who is pursuing his dream, then unless your aspirations do not conflict with his, it can almost be certain that he will not give up his dream for you. A Sagittarius man is a career-oriented man. He has none of the idle indulgence in emotions that a Gemini does. Of course, the dedication to dreams and work is not bad at all. Men should always strive harder. But the problem is, Sagittarius men lack patience when it comes to love. Here, I need to clarify that you should not hastily label Sagittarius men as flirtatious. They are not promiscuous; they are simply at a loss. Basically, Sagittarius men are quite innocent when it comes to love. They just don't know how to love you. Often, the Sagittarius men you see should be charming. They like to laugh, are passionate, intellectual. Indeed, they are very interesting, definitely not boring or rigid. They are also full of sports traits, exuding masculinity. You are attracted to him, and that's perfectly normal. Even I think such men are too attractive. But when you quietly approach, you find that he keeps his distance, or even becomes cold when faced with your wholehearted devotion, or even escapes. You want to ask, Sagittarius man, who can win your heart? Actually, he himself doesn't know. If you ask him, he might tell you detailed standards, but even if you completely meet his standards, he might still not be moved. Because he doesn't know what to do. The early love of Sagittarius men is usually blind. If it fails, the hurt will linger for life. In their hearts, they will always harbor resentment, but they will not blame the person who hurt them; instead, they will blame love itself. They vow not to make the same mistake again in this matter. Thus, they become even more cautious. The banter and laughter of Sagittarius men in love usually turn into tools for avoidance. They reject all serious discussions about love that they are not yet ready for. They will quickly transform questioning conversations into light-hearted banter. This might irritate you, but you can also see it as their way of not wanting to hurt you. Although I must say, it's not a good method. Alas, my Sagittarius buddy. If you fall in love with a Sagittarius man, please keep the following points in mind. 1. If you want to take the initiative to get closer, please slow down and let the other party prepare. 2. If the other party starts to try to escape, don't be afraid, observe for a period of time. Stay calm, don't press questions, don't go berserk, don't cling desperately. They will be moved, but they won't return to you. They might even want to escape even more. 3. If you don't know his thoughts about you, please check if he has another admirer. If not, then there's no problem. Don't judge based on him only focusing on work and ignoring you. In the heart of a Sagittarius man, no one can compete with his dream, even the person he loves. 4. Most Sagittarius men don't know how to proceed and maintain love. You need to teach him these things. But don't expect him to learn everything. If he tries, it means he cares about you. 5. If you are the first love of a Sagittarius, you might be luckier than other women who fall in love with a Sagittarius. At this time, the Sagittarius might still have expectations for love. Treat him well. Fortunately, Sagittarius men become quite stable after marriage. Their wandering hearts are no longer restless. They will become good husbands and learn to bear all the responsibilities that men should. The fatigue you experienced during the pursuit will be compensated throughout the long life after marriage. They are witty, hardworking, talented, and responsible. Perhaps, at that time, you will suddenly realize that all your previous efforts and patience were worth it.