Virgo Women
If I had to choose the hardest zodiac sign for women to pursue, I think I would choose Virgo. Perhaps this is not a new argument, but you need to know why. The difficulty of pursuing Virgo women is different from that of Sagittarius women. It's not hard to make a move or feel at a loss. On the contrary, Virgo women are quite easy to approach at first. This zodiac sign has a natural elegance and nobility. You can easily be attracted to them. I guarantee that among the 12 zodiac signs, Virgo women have the most feminine charm. Don't forget that in ancient legends, Virgo represents princesses. Every woman wants to be a princess, but only Virgo women are born princesses.
This is why they can carry themselves so elegantly. However, this is also why they are hard to pursue. You need to know, why should a noble princess fall for you? Moreover, the innate shyness of Virgo women intensifies this defensive mindset.
However, unless you have sincerely pursued a Virgo woman, most people will be deceived by her gentleness and understanding. They mistakenly assume that such a woman can be easily won over. In fact, you may quickly develop an ambiguous relationship with her. But let's say this, assuming there are several doors leading to the heart of a Virgo woman, you find that the first few are not even closed. Just as you start to rejoice, you discover that the last door is locked with a heavy lock. And by now, the overconfident you has already missed the opportunity to obtain the key to the final door.
Yes, it is exactly like that. A Virgo woman may already show signs of falling in love with you, but at the moment you confess, she may deeply disappoint you. She refuses to date you. Actually, it's not that Virgo women like ambiguity. The admiration she shows is not wrong either. She indeed thought about further developing a relationship with you. But she always hesitates at the last moment. There could be many reasons, and they could be very trivial. It might be due to a lack of security, dissatisfaction with some of your words or actions, or even because your clothes aren't neat enough. However, whatever the reason, it only indicates another characteristic of Virgo women - their contradictory psychology. They like to dwell on questions that have no correct answers, constantly wavering back and forth. And the more you force them, the more they retreat.
Key characteristics of Virgo women - Conservative, conflicted.
You need to remember, if you fall in love with her elegance, don't mind her conservatism. If you love her clean appearance, don't mind her criticism of your clothing. If you think she is full of femininity, don't think about whether you can sleep with her today. I don't know if anyone has had a one-night stand with a Virgo woman, but if so, I assure you it's rare. This doesn't align with the basic mentality of Virgos. It's not that they are too conservative to accept open-minded ideas, but rather they are like princesses in their youth, naturally rejecting acts that destroy love.
Their ideal of perfect love deep down is closest to fairy tales, often Virgo women's first loves fall into the arms of popular figures at school. This is actually their immature expression of love. As they grow older, Virgo women begin to gradually realize that this standard of choosing a partner does not fit real life, and they may lower their standards. Unfortunately, youthful thoughts are deeply rooted. Faced with real love, early experiences and unrealistic romantic dreams are the root of their conflicts.
Oh, don't lose heart, men who have been captivated by Virgo women, there are no lonely people in this world. Virgo women are no exception. Just pay attention to these details:
1. Don't dress too casually, especially not too dirty.
2. Don't be too slick-tongued; honesty and reliability may be closer to a Virgo woman's heart than your little tricks.
3. Don't think you can confess when the time seems right. What you consider as "the right time" is precisely what makes Virgo women conflicted. Give them enough time to adapt to your presence.
4. If you're experienced enough, choosing a romantic way to express your sincerity is not a bad choice.
If you successfully pursue a Virgo woman, then you will have a life that other men envy. She is gentle, thoughtful, full of femininity, and also a good wife and mother. You might enjoy delicious dinners and forever clean shirts. What more could you ask for?
Moreover, Virgo women don't have the playful nature of Gemini, nor the fear of marriage like Sagittarius. If she decides to be with you, she will stay for a long time, unless you hurt her heart. Otherwise, you might even soon enter the stage of marriage.
Virgo women are also easy to please. As long as you care, a gentle greeting or a kiss before bed can make her happy for a long time. As a man, are you still unsatisfied? Therefore, those seemingly insurmountable obstacles are where you should challenge yourself. For such a beautiful woman, putting in more effort is worth it, isn't it?
Virgo Men
Virgo men tend to be low-key and quiet much of the time, completely unlike our noisy Gemini counterparts. I have always believed that Virgo men are among the most pragmatic and reliable of the 12 zodiac signs. If you don't like the free-spirited ways of Sagittarius men or the intellectual games of Gemini, then the down-to-earth Virgo might be a good choice.
Similar to Virgo women, Virgo men are also sensitive. However, unlike Virgo women, Virgo men are less contradictory. Men, after all, shouldn't have such delicate minds. Virgo men aren't good at sweet talk, and those sappy words are usually beyond their capability. However, you can clearly capture evidence of their falling in love through subtle changes in their behavior. Virgo men's love pattern tends to be more conservative. Those women with extremely avant-garde ideologies might find it hard for Virgo men to accept them. Moreover, after being together, their nagging about returning to traditional values might not be something you can endure.
Key characteristics of Virgo men - Conservative, Traditional
The love of Virgo men is quite interesting. The reasons they start a romance are often because they feel they have reached the age to fall in love, or because they see other men around them already in relationships, so they start too. This is not to say that they are insensitive to love, but rather, the main reason is that they want their lives to be orthodox. Of course, this orthodoxy is the standard they set for themselves. So, this is how the first love of Virgo men usually starts.
Virgo men are absolutely exemplary men, unless you really do something to anger them, they rarely think about breaking up. However, if we analyze more deeply, it's not that they value this relationship, but more that they are used to it. Used to being with you, used to thinking of you as their girlfriend.
However, don't think that Virgo men have no requirements at all. Virgo men pay more attention to your details than men of the other 11 zodiac signs. They demand more of your charm. If you are a vulgar and uninteresting woman, you will not win the heart of a Virgo man. Virgo men can see through a woman's little thoughts. Often, they just choose not to say anything.
Virgo men don't like to talk about feelings, and they won't casually discuss their girlfriends with male friends. In their view, that is their privacy. For most men, talking about their girlfriends is a normal thing. Even including very private matters. However, Virgo men's girlfriends, you don't need to worry. Typical Virgo men rarely do such things, he will definitely ensure your secrets to the greatest extent.
The orthodoxy of Virgo men is reflected in many aspects, including the type of women they like - typically gentle and beautiful, slender beauties. And rebellious girls with strong personalities rarely attract Virgo men. Therefore, you can probably guess that the way Virgo men fall in love is also quite formulaic. They won't randomly spread their nets like men of other zodiac signs. In the eyes of Virgo men, those behaviors are unreliable. They also rarely act impulsively (like sneaking back to see his girlfriend before an exam, which I might do, but a Virgo man wouldn't). So, sometimes he appears very calm. Don't doubt his feelings for you. He just considers things more strictly according to rules and doesn't act impulsively.
However, Virgo men can be a bit secretly passionate. Although they appear very proper gentlemen, if one day they reveal some scandalous events, in my view, it's not entirely impossible. Instead, his good reputation and consistent propriety might blind you even more.
Compared to other zodiacs, pursuing a Virgo man is much simpler. As long as you consistently present yourself as a good girl with enough appeal, our little Virgo man will quietly come closer. Of course, it also depends on individual dating skills, but most Virgo men's methods of pursuing women are relatively clumsy. They will invite you to dinner, watch movies, and then look for the right moment to confess. Haha, if you don't want to start your relationship in such a way, you can also try to take the initiative.
Of course, if you're also a shy girl, your relationship might progress a bit slower. Because deep down, Virgo men are quite patriarchal. They don't know how to grovel like Gemini, so unless he carefully considers it and feels confident of success, he won't make a move. If you see a Virgo man frequently appearing at your doorstep, even if he doesn't actively talk to you, you can pretty much confirm that he likes you. Ha ha, what a cute little man!
So, compared to others' constant dilemmas, perhaps the plainness of your relationship with a Virgo man is a kind of happiness.