Actually, I am not a sex expert (in my mind, a sex expert should be like the four Manhattan women in "Sex and the City" who have experienced countless partners). I have been with him for almost two years. We explored our sexual life together. At the beginning, it was really blind groping. Men can reach orgasm easily; but I felt pretty bad, I couldn't feel any pleasure or orgasm! At that time, I also thought that I couldn't pretend to reach orgasm by shouting a few words and live like this all my life, could I?