Having unprotected sex with HIV-infected individuals can lead to the spread of AIDS, regardless of whether it's between same-sex or opposite-sex partners. The semen or vaginal secretions of AIDS-infected individuals contain large amounts of the virus. During sexual activities (including vaginal intercourse, anal sex, and oral sex), due to the friction at the site of intercourse, it is easy for minor tears to occur in the genital mucosa. At this point, the virus takes advantage of the situation and enters the bloodstream of the uninfected individual. It is worth noting that since the walls of the rectum are more prone to damage than the vaginal walls, anal sex carries a higher risk than vaginal sex. In Western countries, 70% of HIV-infected individuals are male homosexuals. In some African and Southeast Asian countries, over 80% of HIV infections are caused by heterosexual contact, with 81% of female patients being prostitutes. Among economically disadvantaged prostitutes, the rate of HIV antibody positivity can be as high as 66%. In these countries, heterosexual activity is the primary mode of HIV transmission.
Although engaging in high-risk sexual behavior may cause anxiety about whether one has contracted AIDS, leading to extensive research on questions regarding the risk of sexual transmission of HIV, all of this hinges on whether the sexual partner at the time was carrying the HIV virus. Many "AIDS phobics" not only feel that the "window period" is excruciatingly long but also become overly cautious during the days while waiting for results. Some even remain skeptical after receiving negative results, showing signs of neurosis.
So, if it is known that one party is infected with the virus, what is the probability of transmitting the virus to the other party during a single sexual encounter?
This depends on the gender of the individuals involved, the type of sexual behavior, whether there were protective measures in place, and the stage of infection of the carrier. Generally, the highest risk of sexual transmission occurs among male homosexuals, followed by male-to-female, female-to-male, and female-to-female. Among different types of sexual behavior, anal sex poses the greatest risk of infection, followed by unprotected (i.e., without a condom) vaginal sex, oral sex, and mutual masturbation. Specifically, the probability of infection from unprotected (without a condom) anal sex ranges from 1/1600 to 1/10. The most alarming statistic suggests that out of ten unprotected anal sex encounters, one could result in an HIV infection, while the most optimistic statistic indicates that it might happen once in 1600 instances. The other probabilities follow accordingly: male-to-female vaginal sex ranges from 1/2000 to 1/200, female-to-male from 1/3000 to 1/700, and there are no reliable statistics yet for female-to-female transmission among lesbians.
Researchers have also found that whether one is the "giver" or "receiver" during intercourse significantly affects the risks associated with oral sex, vaginal sex, and anal sex. For instance, the receiver during oral sex has half the infection probability of the giver. Compared to the receiver of oral sex, the infection probability of insertive vaginal sex is ten times higher, and insertive anal sex thirteen times higher. The receiver of vaginal sex has twice the infection probability, and the receiver of anal sex a hundred times higher. If condoms are used correctly, the risk of HIV infection can be reduced to 1/20. For example, for men, the risk of contracting HIV through unsafe anal sex ranges from 1/1600 to 1/10, but using a condom can lower this risk to 2.5/100000.
Considering the situation described, although repeated rinsing in the shower afterward occurred, this does not influence whether HIV infection will occur. Although a condom was initially used, the final unprotected intercourse lasted only three to four minutes, which still constitutes an unprotected sexual act. Assuming the sexual partner is an HIV carrier, this particular act falls under the category of male-to-female insertive vaginal sex. Referring to the data above, the probability ranges from 1/3000 to 1/700, meaning the lowest statistical probability is 1/3000, and the highest is 1/700 (which means that out of 700 instances of vaginal sex, only one case of female-to-male transmission occurs).
The significance of this data lies in the fact that, from a probabilistic standpoint, the sexual transmission of HIV is not as easy as people imagine, especially compared to traditional sexually transmitted diseases, where the transmission probability is much lower. Moreover, the sexual partner may not necessarily be an HIV carrier, so it is important to wait patiently for test results and trust in science. However, this does not mean that the sexual transmission of HIV should be ignored. As people often say, "For any specific individual, even the smallest probability becomes 100% if it happens to them." Therefore, maintaining good personal hygiene and practicing safe sex remains a principle we should adhere to.