A patient sought my help, saying his girlfriend told him he wasn't a "tough guy." Patient history: 25 years old, recently discovered that after *** being stimulated, he cannot quickly achieve an erection and requires prolonged stimulation! Secondly, after becoming erect, the hardness is insufficient! I started having a *** history since I was 17, and even after having a girlfriend, I still have ***! How can I become the "tough guy" in women's hearts?
This patient actually has erectile dysfunction. Erectile dysfunction refers to when there is a sexual desire, the *** cannot become erect or is not hard enough, or even though there is an erection with a certain degree of hardness, it cannot be maintained for long enough for sexual intercourse, thus hindering or preventing the completion of sexual intercourse. Occasional failures in sexual intercourse should not be considered as erectile dysfunction.
To become a tough guy, start with preventing erectile dysfunction:
There is an old saying in Traditional Chinese Medicine, "treat the disease before it occurs." For erectile dysfunction, actively preventing its occurrence is more important than treating it after it happens.
1. Learn about sex. Some unmarried men claim they have erectile dysfunction (no sexual desire or cannot become erect), but this is often just due to insufficient stimulation to arouse sexual desire, and should not be considered pathological. During the first sexual experiences of newlyweds, if the man is nervous and excited, and the woman is fearful and shy, leading to failed intercourse, this is often due to lack of experience rather than a pathological condition. They should understand and comfort each other, and with time, most couples will achieve satisfactory harmony.
2. Understand physiological fluctuations. When a man experiences temporary or phased erectile dysfunction due to fever, excessive fatigue, or poor mood, it is mostly a normal inhibition or physiological fluctuation. The man should not add unnecessary mental burdens, and the woman should not blame or criticize, so as to avoid making it a reality and leading to erectile dysfunction.
3. Avoid taking or stop taking drugs that may cause erectile dysfunction. If certain medications are necessary due to illness, choose those that do not affect sexual function as much as possible.
4. Actively treat various diseases that may cause erectile dysfunction.
Sexual life involves both partners. Both husband and wife are responsible for checking and treating this condition. The man should build confidence and not feel pessimistic or disappointed, while the woman should offer warmth, consideration, encouragement, persuasion, and cooperation, which is very important.
5. Try to avoid *** as much as possible. The inner anxiety caused by frequent and persistent *** and the intense stimulation leading to sexual dysfunction should be avoided. There are no bones in the *** and it won’t cause fractures, but excessive forceful pulling can lead to rupture or hematoma causing painful urination, etc. Moreover, excessive friction can make the skin on the glans penis sensitive, eventually leading to conditions like delayed ejaculation, premature ejaculation, or erectile dysfunction, resulting in sexual function decline.
Prevention is key to becoming a strong and resilient man. Diseases should be treated actively, early treatment leads to early recovery. It is seriously recommended to seek professional diagnosis and treatment at a specialized male urology hospital.
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