Authoritative survey data shows that among married men and women in China, more than a quarter of them do not have even one conjugal life in a month, and male sexual dysfunction is the main reason. With the increase of social pressure and bad living habits such as smoking and drinking. Due to the increasing number of men aged 30-60 suffering from sexual dysfunction, more and more ED men are burdened with heavy mental shackles. In this regard, medical experts believe that men have the right to suffer from impotence.
1. Do not be too harsh on men
Traditional concepts are too harsh on men - when men have sex with women, they are not allowed to fail. Once a man becomes impotent, it becomes a great sin, making him ridiculed by the world and unable to show his face. There has never been fairness in love. "Men have the right to be impotent!" This is a recent view proposed by Dr. Delmer Franz, a famous German psychologist, who gave enormous spiritual comfort to men confused by ED. Experts found that there are actually very few patients with real organic impotence, most cases of impotence are due to psychological problems. Dr. Franz reminds people that "wanting to have sex" and "should have sex" are two different things. Impotence refers to the situation where a man cannot erect when he wants to have sex; in fact, men who cannot temporarily erect may simply feel that they should have sex without having physiological needs. People, especially men, have a deeply rooted subconscious belief: men have strong sexual desires and can be aroused at any time, otherwise there is a problem. But modern sex medicine believes that men's sexual desires have a relatively obvious cycle, men's sexual awareness is much sharper than other awareness, once the interest in sex is destroyed, sexual awareness and sexual organs will react. The cause of impotence comes from deep within a man's heart, compared to women, men's "sex" ability requires more care and attention.
2. It is important for women to protect their husbands
Having come into contact with various types of sexual dysfunction patients, most of them do not have organic lesions, that is, there is no abnormality or lesion in the sex organ, but it is caused by psychological factors. There are many reasons for male sexual dysfunction, as long as they are correctly addressed, the vast majority of them can be cured, and the partner plays a crucial role in the treatment process.
One of the main reasons for male sexual dysfunction is psychological factors. Modern men face fierce social competition and bear huge psychological pressure, which often affects their performance in sex. Director Liu believed that a good woman is a good remedy for male sexual dysfunction. Psychologists once said, "Nothing can dissolve the obstacles in a man's heart better than a woman's gentleness." In this situation, the wife's understanding, concern, consideration, encouragement, and help play an important role. In fact, occasional inability to erect is a normal phenomenon, when the husband feels tired or mentally stressed, he may not be able to erect or maintain erection. In fact, one of the most common reasons for men to experience erectile dysfunction is lack of sleep and heavy mental stress. At this time, if the wife scolds her husband, it may leave a psychological shadow, leading to long-term inability to erect. The wife can try to talk with her husband and see if there are any troubling matters recently, try to open up the knots in her heart, and also change the usual sexual habits appropriately, try other fresh and stimulating ways of making love, etc.
Irregular lifestyle, unscientific nutritional intake, insufficient sleep, and addiction to stimulants such as cigarettes, alcohol, coffee, cola, tea, etc., will interfere with the reflex transmission of sexual impulse stimulation, inhibiting erection. Therefore, male friends should enhance their understanding and health awareness, advocate healthy and scientific living, treat urological diseases as common diseases, and seek timely treatment at regular urology hospitals.
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