There are three illusions about the causes of premature ejaculation in men today: newlyweds, too tired, and living apart. Have you ever experienced this phenomenon?
In sexual counseling and sexual therapy, the most common issue is probably premature ejaculation. It has a great impact on male self-confidence, causing couples to separate. Although epidemiological studies show that the incidence of premature ejaculation is around 30%, in fact, about 75% of men feel that they have poor ejaculatory control. Of course, a large part of this is "pseudo-premature ejaculation."
To correctly understand pseudo-premature ejaculation, one must fully understand what true premature ejaculation is. It refers to the situation during sexual intercourse where the man's erection ejaculates before entering the woman's vagina, during insertion, or shortly after insertion (less than one minute). This ejaculation usually occurs before the man's subjective desire, and the man feels a lack of or no control over ejaculation, feeling anxious and uneasy. In addition, this situation must persist or recur for more than 3 months.
Generally, when newly married, separated for a period of time, under high work pressure, or physically exhausted, cases of premature ejaculation are mostly illusions and temporary. Because newly married men often have little sexual experience, and the various stages of sexual life have not yet reached full coordination, their skills are also lower. But on the wedding night, the spirit is often highly excited, and a considerable amount of semen accumulates in the sex organs. When encountering strong sexual stimulation, it naturally leads to an urgent ejaculation. Similarly, if couples live apart for a long time and have irregular sexual lives, they may experience pseudo-premature ejaculation similar to newlyweds after being reunited. However, many men will bear a heavy psychological burden due to this, affecting their future sexual lives.
In addition to physiological reasons, there are many psychological reasons leading to pseudo-premature ejaculation, such as cohabitation before marriage, poor living privacy conditions, fear of pregnancy, nervousness, fear of failure, physical fatigue, overly dominant women, or pursuing a woman for a long time. These are mostly caused by negative and unhealthy psychological states.
In fact, during sexual activity, it's not surprising for normal men to occasionally experience rapid ejaculation, and it cannot be rashly concluded as premature ejaculation. However, if one always thinks negatively and worries that the same situation will happen again next time, or if the wife excessively complains or blames, even with cold remarks, it may increase the man's mental pressure, leading to a psychological vicious cycle, causing the problem to recur repeatedly. Eventually, it may turn into real premature ejaculation, and even lead to other sexual dysfunctions such as erectile dysfunction.
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