In recent years, there are more and more leftover men and women. The Spring Festival which should be a happy time for family reunion has gradually become a burden to these singles. Especially this year when the first day of the lunar new year coincides with "Valentine's Day", it is even harder for single men and women to be happy.
Not long ago, the China Marriage and Family Research Association affiliated with the All-China Women's Federation and the Matrimonial Industry Committee of the China Social Work Association released data showing that 80% of single men and women aged 25-40 are "not happy". Experts warn that behind the unhappiness of "leftover men and women" lie irritability, anxiety, and even depression and other negative emotions. The Valentine's Day that just passed on February 14th became a peak period of anxiety for singles.
On the other hand, most older singles have had less than perfect dating experiences. These dating experiences leave a sense of emotional frustration from broken relationships, lurking in one's heart. Once stimulated, it can lead to feelings of depression. Especially during holidays like the Spring Festival, parents' urging of "hurry up and find a girlfriend (boyfriend)" makes them afraid to go home.
The self-mockery of singles online reveals a hint of helplessness. Unmarried people aged 27-28 are called "remaining warriors"; those aged 29-30 are called "must-remain guests"; those aged 31-35 are called "fighting remaining Buddhas"; and those over 35 are respectfully called "Qitian Great Remaining".
As age increases, their chances of dating will decrease. Survey data shows that for women starting at age 30 and for men starting at age 34, the opportunity to marry drops sharply.
At the same time, the Spring Festival is a time for family reunions. Pressure from family and public opinion exacerbates the "unhappy" emotions of older singles. Anxiety has become a group psychology.
Many people face the main problem in choosing a partner as the ambiguity and restlessness of their views on marriage and love. To solve the group anxiety of "leftover men and women", helping them establish a positive, sunny, and confident attitude towards choosing a partner, enhancing their affinity and attractiveness to the opposite sex is the top priority. In addition, learning to relieve stress and alleviating anxiety by shifting attention is also a must-take course for them. Spring has arrived. Actively going into nature, exercising more, and getting more sunshine can also make their mood brighter.
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