However, communication between parents and children is often not as simple as parents think. One reason for the lack of harmony may be that parents have behaved in a way that exceeds "norms," such as secretly reading the diary the child hid in a drawer. If discovered by the child, it could increase their distrust towards the parents.
When children deal with the difficulties they face in reality, they will always look for a "secret" unknown to others to maintain inner balance.