Getting over a breakup is the best way to learn about love.

by hooligan on 2008-03-26 14:26:21

Love is actually a kind of interpersonal relationship. Mei: There's no class on love at school, and our parents certainly don't teach us about it either - so how can we learn to love well in the fastest, most efficient way possible? Fang Gang: Love is actually a kind of interpersonal relationship. Learning about interpersonal relationships can be done through reading literature or watching TV dramas and films, but ultimately improvement still depends on personal practice. Even if schools and parents were to talk about it, it wouldn't make much difference. One must learn through loving, love while learning, and grow quickly from breakups. This may not seem like the fastest, most efficient way, but if one finds even the process of falling in love troublesome, or fears to savor the pain of a breakup, then they are destined not to become successful in interpersonal relationships, not just in romantic ones. Mei: Do you believe in love? Why or why not? What does reliable love look like to you? Fang Gang: When two people are mutually attracted to each other, like each other, and are fascinated by...