Ranking of things women do that make men miserable (with photo)

First, "a blooming apricot branches out over the wall" (a Chinese euphemism for a wife's infidelity).

Pain level: ★★★★★

This expression needs no explanation. For men, nothing is more painful than this. The outcome is naturally divorce. If there are no children, it's easier to handle; both parties can just part ways. But with children, things get complicated. Should they just barely get by together? That would be worse than death! Should they completely split up? Then the children become the victims.