When it comes to love, different people hold different views. On this issue, it doesn't matter who is right or wrong, but rather if it fits or who cares more. The reasons for happiness are almost the same for those who are happy, while each unfortunate person has their own misfortune.
Some say that experiencing love once in a lifetime is the best choice. Experiencing too much love can make one numb, leading to disbelief in love. Others claim that giving up someone who loves you isn't painful, but giving up someone you love is difficult. If destiny, time, and space align, there's no distance; if not, even meeting may still result in distance. Some say that love is a kind of feeling—pain, happiness, sweetness, or heartbreak—and we can't be sure it will last forever. What we lose doesn't mean we can't possess it again. Many people fall in love with the wrong ones due to loneliness, and more people live lonely lives because they loved the wrong ones!
In the face of love, humanity is a contradiction. We are attracted by its beauty, yet we fear being hurt by it, especially those who have been hurt before. We long for great ideals, yet sometimes we are confused by reality. Perhaps we need to strive for progress, but often we remain in a negative attitude. Clearly, we live in a world full of material desires. For those who love life, it's better to adopt a constructive attitude toward life, because "waiting" is passive and negative. Maybe you won't find love when you search for it; you might even get hurt while searching for it, but if you don't seek it, it may remain at the idealistic stage.
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