I have never thought that such a dramatic event would happen around me, or even to me. I am a very simple girl who always imagines everything to be beautiful. I am only 24 years old and full of hope and yearning for love, marriage, and future life. My boyfriend and I also get along very well. He is someone I met in the first half of this year. He is handsome, with a gentle and kind temperament. But one day, by chance, when we were drinking at a bar, a flashy old woman walked up to him, came over very affectionately to talk to him, putting her arm around his shoulder and getting close to his face, flirting with him as if she didn't even see me. Although he looked a little embarrassed, I could see from his eyes that they probably had a complicated relationship in the past. After we went home, I asked him who she was, and he said she was just a friend, an ordinary friend. A few days later, a friend who knew about his past secretly told me that he had been kept by a rich woman (the same woman I saw in the bar). He was only 21 years old at the time, still a student, and had cohabited with a nearly 40-year-old rich woman for two years.
This news was like a bolt of lightning to me. I didn't expect that he had such a dirty past, which was so inconsistent with his appearance. Although he explained to me more than once that it was something from his youth, and that they had broken up cleanly and definitively without any further entanglements, I still had reservations in my heart. Maybe I am someone with a spiritual obsession with purity. Every time I think about the scenes of him being with that rich woman, I can't accept this reality. A few days ago, he came to my house and brought gifts for my parents. At first, I didn't want to let him in and wanted to drive him away directly, but seeing him chatting happily with my parents, I realized that my parents were generally satisfied with him. If I told them about this, wouldn't it be equivalent to giving them a major blow? So, I endured until he bid farewell, and then I told him that we should not see each other anymore, and we should break up.
He asked me to give him another chance. To show his sincerity, he said he was willing to hand over all his money to me for safekeeping, and would treat me wholeheartedly. In the following days, he indeed treated me very well, touching me deeply. He picked me up and dropped me off every day, bought whatever I liked and delivered it to me, stayed by my side without leaving when I was sick, and he did indeed hand over all his savings to me. Finally, I was moved by his sincerity. I thought, who doesn't make mistakes? It's fine as long as they change. When I started to accept him again, my parents found out about his past through some channel. They believed that our family has a clean background, and this was a matter of principle and quality. How could our family have such a despicable son-in-law? They asked me to cut ties with him immediately. Teachers, do you think I should break up with him? Because humans are emotional beings, during this period of interaction, I feel that he is not a bad person. This is just a blemish on his history, but can this blemish never be whitewashed or cleared? Source: (Dianhui Forum http://qqnba2.uueasy.com)